Jessica - posted on 07/05/2010 ( 41 moms have responded )
We have full custody of my step daughters and we have agreed to let their birth mom see them every other weekend. She has been seeing them everyother weekend now for a little over 6 months and we have been sending clothes because we knew she didn't have any. Well, every time we would send clothes they would forget some there so we stopped sending them because we can't afford to buy clothes for both houses. The birth mom does not pay child support and only see's the girls 2 weekends in a month. When we quit sending clothes she was extremely mad and started cussing us out saying that we were doing this to the kids and that they would have to stay in the same clothes they went to her house in all weekend. Not to mention she talked bad about me and called me every name under the sun in front of the kids all weekend.
So I guess my question is were we wrong for not sending clothes? When we had them every other weekend 3 years ago she never sent anything with the girls. We had to have every thing they needed at our house and pay child support.