Christina - posted on 01/28/2009 ( 10 moms have responded )
We are supposed to get his kids everyother weekend, every other holiday and two weeks out of the summer. Lately we have been getting them once a month. They are sick a lot and don't want to come when they're sick, which I understand. The biomom also pulls that "they don't want to come" line. We are going to petition the court for a set visitation schedule when I get my tax money back in they next couple weeks.
Biomom has agreed to us getting a set schedule, but how do I know she won't constantly tell us the kids are sick? I really love the kids, and so does our daughter. It's hard on us when we don't get to see them. How do convince Dad that we should get them when it's our weekend regardless if they are sick or not. We can care for them just as well as she can, and at our home there's no smoking which is actually better for them when they are sick.
I just don't know what to do. I want my daughter to spend more time with her brother and sister.