Gemma - posted on 09/01/2009 ( 46 moms have responded )
Ok, i feel awful just writing this, but i just know she will ruin the most important day of my life. My Fiance and i have been together for six years, friends for over 10. His daughter was just a year old (she is 7 now, she will be 8 when we get hitched) when he and 'the mother' broke up, and she is an evil bitch, but i wont go into that here. My problem is that his daughter has grown up to never listen to anything i tell/ask her. Basically to have no respect for me whatsoever. She completely ignores me when im telling her off, asking her a question, asking a favour, just trying to chat, etc. she has great pleasure in telling friends she meets that im not part of her family, and she is deliberatley rude when speaking to me. Quite often i catch her glaring at me and when i look up at her she immediately crunches up her face in disgust and spits the word "WHAT?" at me.
I wouldn't feel so put out if i was the only one being treated this way, she reserves the really bratty acts for me, but she is rude to everyone, steals from people, deliberatly does the opposite to what she is told... i could go on for a very long time. my point is, i do not want her to ruin my special day by being "in" the wedding itself. i just know that she will make a scene before the ceremony, or during. not do what she is supposed to, suddenly decide she doesnt want to wear her dress, rip up my bouquet while no-one is looking, refuse to smile, or worse pull an ugly face in the pictures, she is very good at ruining pictures.......... I wouldnt put anything past this girl, but ALL of the fiance's family think her appalling behaviour is 'cute' and 'crazy', i have commented on the way she treats me many times, but i am always dismissed as over-reacting. She is NEVER punished by ANYONE, and if i tell her off she cries and runs to her daddy, who promptly gives her unlimited hugs and kisses!
Im starting to get a little emotional writing this, so i hope i have got to my point....... what the hell do i do? please help!?