Sharon - posted on 01/28/2009 ( 100 moms have responded )
She is a control freak. Only lets my children (13,11,7) bring school things back and forth - no toys or personal items. Has made my 11 yr old drop a friend because they had a sleepover at my house. Has ensured that I am 4th to be called on the school contact list (Ex, her, her dad, then me) with the excuse of "they are closer to the school" then I. CUTS MY 11 yr old's HAIR! About 8 inches off! Has shown the kids the sep papers (not the final div papers mind you!).
My Ex lets her- at that house it's all about keeping her happy. She has told my kids that if they don't do what she wants, the way she wants, they will learn what Cinderella felt like. She has packed her bags twice & told my kids it will be their fault if she and Ex get divorced.
All if this I hear thru the kids and see some of it, so there is really no Proof. A judge won't re-visit the custody unless physical abuse or some other tangible issue (drugs or the like). What to do besides cry and go crazy that they are exposed to this kind of insanity???
Thanks for listening.