Jaime - posted on 03/02/2009 ( 43 moms have responded )
As much as I love my SS, enjoy having him in my family I am giving up. I can't waste any more energy defending myself, or my husband any longer. I have been accused of meddling, abusing my SS, yelling at my SS, and down grading the bio mom. I have been told numerous times I live in a bubble, that I am jelaous of the relationship my husband has with his son and so on, the lists are endless. Receiving many emails hurtful emails has pushed me over the top.
All I have ever wanted was for my SS to have a relationship with his father like my girls do. But then I am told my SS is not treated the same as my girls???
I am no longer pushing for visitations, helping with travel arrangements, and so on. In hind site I guess I should never have started in the first place. I was only trying to help my husband build a relationship with his son. Both my husband and bio mom need all the help they can get to solve there problems. I only hope they both wake uo and smell the roses before that little boy is damaged any further!!!