Susan - posted on 02/11/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
me n my hubby are disagreeing on this subject so i would like some new opinions. he believes that all the kids should be treated equally in our house. if we go anywhere special it has to be a time when all the kids are there (he gets his kids every other weekend). the same amount of money is supposed to be spent on all the kids for birthdays and holidays. i say thats not fair. his kids get to go home and get 2nd birthdays and christmases and they go to all kinds of places with their mom. my kids do not have another home or another parent to go places with or to get presents from. this being their only home, i feel that my kids should get a little more and should be able to go places without his kids. i understand that we need to take them all out occasionally and buy them all special things sometimes but i dont think that every time i want to do something for my kids or buy them something, i should have to factor in his kids. please tell me what you think because we are at a stalemate!!