Barbara - posted on 06/03/2009 ( 8 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been in a constant struggle to see his daughter from a previous relationship. His daughters mom refuses to let us see her and he's a great dad. We think partially because it might not be his kid. We decided to get a paternity test...only we really don't have the money to hire and attorney to take her to get it court ordered. I know she wont just cooperate and take the little girl in for the test, which if she had nothing to hide, why wouldnt she? Soooo...what she we tell her to get her to cooperate? I was thinking we can tell her that my husband is NOT signing away his rights, he wants a paternity test...and if she doesnt cooperate we WILL get an attorney and she will have to pay for one also, which I know she doesnt have the money for. But how should we word it all?