Kirby - posted on 03/02/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
My partner is always going on at me about treating and loving our sons and my SS the same. I really cant though, because as much as I love my stepson, I love my own sons more. I dont treat my SS any different really, except I do leave it up to my partner to change his nappy, and things like that, but I still cant bring him to the same level in my heart as my own sons. Is this wrong? Where do your stepchildren fit in your heart? Are they on par with your biological children or not? Personally I think that there is a connection between a mother and child that cannot be matched by anything else but my partner seems to think they should all be loved the same amount. I dont love my SS any less, but I do love him in a different way to my own sons.