User - posted on 03/10/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
This is so unfortunate but I need some advice. I have an 11 years old step daughter that should be wearing a bra. She is quite large for her age and although she probably does not want to wear one she really needs to. I have been not saying anything for the past year as I felt it shoud be up to her mom to advise her on these things. But since we have her only 6 weeks out of the year(she lives far away) I have an opportunity to go buy her some now. It is propbably not my place but I have noticed many times you can see the outline of her chest through her clothes nad it really is innapropriate. It sucks not being able to just speak your mind and parent as though it were your own child. My bio child and his dad openly discuss puberty and the such but this has not been the case with my step daughter. Okay so should I keep my mouth shut or butt in????!!!