Tee - posted on 07/07/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel as though I am living in the Twilight Zone. I am stressed out about this whole situation between my husband and his ex-wife. When I see her I get literally sick to the stomach.
She insults my husband when he doesn't do what she wants him to do. She sends threatening text messages when he is running late for the children. She with holds the children when she feels like it. She is just out right vindictive. Now after all the hell she has been putting him through this last couple of months, she needs my husband to do her a favor and watch the kids for her on her sheduled days. My husband being the kind natured person that he is, always turns the cheek. Meanwhile, I am ready to punch her in the cheek. I don't know if I should be mad at her for making his life miserable or mad at him for taking her sh*% all the time.
I am tired of hearing "this is for my kids." No it is not. He is doing the favors for her not for the children. She knows that he is kind hearted and will do anything for his children and she just takes advantage of him completely. I am tired of watching my husband look like an ass when it comes to her.
I know it may seem as if I am blowing things out of proportion but this is just once isolated event. Every single week it is a different situation. I am just tired. My husband and I have been together for 6 years and I thought things would have gotten better by now but it seems as though it is just getting worse by the day.
Dammit!! I just need to get away for a few days. I don't want to be involved in this situation anymore!!