Misty - posted on 03/15/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
my husband n i have been married almost two yrs now, he has two sons from his previous marriage n i had one from mine, we now have a lil boy together n another on the way. well lately my family is falling apart, and i feel like no matter what i do it makes no difference. you see my step sons live wit their mom n visit us on the weekends and well anytime she needs a babysitter that is, lately they have been misbehaving to the extreme. my 5yr old ss is constantly complaining about wanting to stay at his moms cuz she buys them new toys n games on a regular basis (so much that he is literally turning into a spoiled brat) my other ss just turned 4 and he is on the smaller side so of course he gets babied constantly the problem with this is my son is also 4 actually a lil younger than my ss and he doesnt get babied he knows hes a big boy he walks on his own and talks in full sentences to get wut he wants. my ss on the other hand trys to talk like a baby n wants to be carried everywhere we go, and if he doesnt get his way he cries. they only act like this because their mother allows them to act this way so i guess my question is how do i save my sanity and my ss so they dont turn into spoiled brats????