Jessica - posted on 04/16/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )
Just got some great news.....
My SD lives with us full time, as my hubby has sole custody. Her BM, who has a ton of problems, and has caused a LOT of pain, called us up and asked to DECREASE her visitation. It is actually quite sad, but it is so much better for my SD, and she is thrilled, that she gets to stay with us even longer. I just wanted all of the stepmoms out there, to stay positive! Everyone says that the kid will figure out, what kind of person their mom really is, on their own, and they are right! Make sure that your stepkids see you as nothing but a positive influence in their lives, and you will come out on top!