Crystal - posted on 01/18/2010 ( 18 moms have responded )
I have two sd (8 and 2). The older one is fine and pretty understanding of the situation. The younger one of course doesn't really get it. I have a bd thats one and she calls me mom and my husband and I call me mom to her. So the sd started calling me mom. I think she just thinks its my name. Anyway her bm and I have talked about it and she doesn't want her daughter calling me mom. I understand and dont want to take that away from her. I try to remind my sd of my name often but i am Mom in my home so she doesn't get it. i don't want her bm to be mad or not want us to have the girls but i cant stop being mom to my own daughter and in my own home. I just don't know what to do here.