Amber - posted on 03/18/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
Okay..so My Fiances BM of Triplets is not allowing him/us to really see his kids. She is going against what is said in the papers that the court ordered and is doing things just in spite of him. Here recently the BM has not been allowing anyone but MY fiance pick up the babies and she will only let the babies come over if he is there the entire time that they are over. He works full time and over time to pay his child support and other bills. He doesnt have but maybe one day a week totally off. The papers that the court ordered and what they had agreed on is that if either parent cannont be with the child when it is their time with the child, then the grandparent can provide care for them until the parent is available. she is not allowing this to happen. she will not let their grandmother watch them til he gets off work. she will not let me see them either. She will not let them leave her apartment to come over unless he comes and picks them up. in the papers it said that grandparents can handle transportation if the parent is unavailable to do so. she is completely going against the papers and we dont know what else we can do besides set a court date to figure all this out. we have tried talking to her and everything. PLEASE GIVE SOME ADVISE!!