Sarah - posted on 01/20/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
I check my SD's email and myspace because I know her parents do not. I am not checking to be nosy but for safety. I have only taken action for safety once so far when I found she was friends with a 23 yr old male on myspace- I just deleted him. If I had the choice there would be no myspace account. I would say it's pretty easy to scan for safety and let the social life be, they need to learn some things on their own. Today the messages I read between her and her boyfriend was her asking him to the movies this weekend but then they would not watch the movie, they would make out. SD is with us this weekend and we have our first meeting with SD and the family therapist. It should be mostly a get to know ya meeting - I'll probably stick to just watching for safety issues but I'm saddened that she seems to be kind of promiscuous like. I'm open to support or advice in addition to my prayers for her.