Christina - posted on 06/19/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been together for two years. I have a child from a previous relationship as does he. We also have a 16 month old son and another baby on the way. For two years my husband's ex has litteraly made our lives hell. She has tried to run me over twice, made accusations that i was smoking pot in front of my step-son, accusations that I spank him all the time, that i yell at him, that I sit him down and tell him horrile things about his mom, that I tell him he isn't allowed to tell his mom anything about what goes on at our house, etc., etc. These are just a few of the things we've dealt with, keep in mind they're not even the worst things we've dealt with. She has taken all of this to the GAL in our custody case and without even looking into anything she just takes the mom's word and is trying to use it against us. The GAL has even went as far as telling the Superintendent at school that I shouldn't be allowed to go to the school for any reason not even for my own child, so as I don't upset this woman.
I have put up with all these horrible accusations for over two years and it won't stop. I have had a restraining order on her for nearly two years thinking this may put a stop to it. She has had my step-son call me and tell me I'm a stupid b***h. It's driving me insane. I don't know how to deal with it, or make other people realize i'm not doing the things she saying. I have not been allowed to be with my husband when he picks up his son and have abided by this as to not cause more drama for my step-son. She's trying to get it put into the custody agreement that I am never to have anything to do with him. I need advice. What do I do. This is beyond rediculous and is out of hand.