Allison - posted on 01/07/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
My Fiance and I have been together for almost 2 years. He has a daughter who is almost 2, and I have been a part of her life since she was 6 months old. He only gets her a few hours a week (which will be changing soon, he is going back to court for more time), but we are together every time he has her. I understand that she is only 2, but a part of me feels weird that she calls me Momma. His ex is a horrible mom (doesn't feed her properly or bath her) and she hardly spends any time with her. His ex thinks that I am a "home wrecker" because she and my fiance are not together, even though the broke up 4 months before their daughter was born, and I didn't come into the picture until she was 3 months old.
So, long story short, I don't feel like pissing off his ex by letting Hailee call me mom, but because she's so young, do I let it roll, or do I try and correct her? In all honesty I think that it's sad that I see this child 8 hours a week and she calls me momma, it says a lot about his ex.