Lia - posted on 01/29/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )
so right now my husband has 2 ex's all whom he has children with. an ex wife who has 2 kids with, an ex who he has one child with who we have custody of. its so wierd because i am in the position of being in two differnt battles with both of these women. my husbands ex wife wont let us have his older kids because 1. i curse to much and 2. because we dont answer the phone when she calls us. because niether my husband of myself want to hear her constantly talk down on us and ask us for money when my father in law is already giving her 1100$ a month to pay her own bills while we recieve no help from any family members. the second girl doesnt even come see her child whom we have custody of. she comes around once every few months and then expects us to try to work with her and change all of our plans, vacations everything so she can see her kid. i have put rules and everything for her to see her daughter to try to prevent inconsistantsy because the child is special needs. i am stuck between fighting to see kids, and fighting to have a parent see her kid. any advise form anyone who has been dealing with such a situation???