M - posted on 09/22/2009 ( 27 moms have responded )
My step daughter's mom is giving my husband a hard time. First when she thought he was going to cheat on me with her a few years ago when we first got together he was able to do whatever he chose to with his daughter. Well he put a end to her nonsense and had to end up going to court and put himself on child support. Well she is not following the court's orders as far as communication and sends her child to his house for weekend visits with clothes that are too small. He wasn't even invited to her birthday party. She sent the letter certified mail the Friday before the party with no name on it and the post office didn't know who to deliver it to. She gets more than enough child support and refuses to cooperate with him. She has not given him any of the court ordered documents and I am also being harrassed by her, her sister and friends. What can I do? Because honestly I feel that she is really putting a strain on our relationship. She makes people think he is a deadbeat that doesn't want to assist her but he is doing all he can for his child. PLEASE HELP!