Step-son & ex Girlfriend - Can any1 help me?

Jess - posted on 11/30/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have a 12 year old step son plus my premmie 6month old but the boys aren't my problem. Its my partners x gf. They have been split for 4 years now (my partner n i have been together for 2) But my son n step son have stil not met each other (doesnt help we live hour n half away) but i am not allowed to visit down south with my partner as his ex goes nuts about it. I am not allowed at her house n my man has to go alone which i am ok with but he wont go alone which can drive me nuts lol but i dont want to be his ons step mum or mum i just want to be able to be apart of his life as he now has a half brother n i jus would like to spend some time with im too with my partner of course or one on one time but his ex wont allow my step son to come up n stay with us for school holidays or weekends n its hard on my partner as i know how much he wants to see his son. But what do we do? She's still in love with my man but hes not with her, (if you spent time with him talking about her you would understand) I'd just like my partner to have a relatonship with his son without her around(hes not allowed to take his son out has to visit at her house) and for our son to get to know etc his big half brother. Am i asking too much???? Please help Me!!!

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Jess - posted on 11/30/2009

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Ok thanks very much for that might go see one of those free lawyers and see where we can go from there.

Jen - posted on 11/30/2009

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go to court and get a custody order. if you cant afford it talk to a fathre's rights group or legal aid!

Jess - posted on 11/30/2009

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Thats the thing there is no court order. So that is why i am at a lost on what to do.

Mary - posted on 11/30/2009

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Is there a court order as to why your boyfriend can't see his son outside of BM's house? Depending on your situation, you can have him take her back to court to get the parenting plan changed to where he gets to see him outside of BM's house. Otherwise, you guys will remain at the mercy of BM's jealous rath.