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Does anyone else ever have the children's mom and her current husband tell you that they are tired of you trying to take their place? I am only doing what I think is right, which is encourage them to be open, honest people, that respect other adults and peers, and I encourage talking to their mom when we have them every other weekend. My choices in the past haven't been great, and some were wrong, but I always stood up for what I believe in. Is that really wrong?
Has anyone else suffered loosing thier spouse to the hands of ex's? It's to the point where I don't even want to associate with this family anymore because I am tired of being the center of blame for everything. I took myself out of the school scene, activities don't appeal to me, phone calls are with dad unless they ask to talk to me (which they always do), and I am supportive of them no matter what, I choose not to go to functions I know their mom is going to be at, because the kids shouldn't have to see her power struggle me, even though I am there sitting in a chair and that's it!
I need help and support. Someone hear my prayer. I've kicked my husband out and we are officially seperated thanks to a fight that started after I apologized to the kids stepdad, and I want him back so much already. I have nowhere to turn.