Penny - posted on 03/17/2010 ( 80 moms have responded )
We live 8 hours away from SD. Whenever we see SD, about once a month during the school year in her state, BM wants to know where we are staying and in what city. We've been so kind as to oblige her even though she's super nasty, refuses to communicate with us, and even threatens us that if we don't tell her she will contact their mediator. We are so fed up with her. She also has refused to tell us when she takes SD out of state, when she misses school, goes to the doctor, etc. Things that are not in their court order, but would just be courteous as we try to be. My question is: should we tell her where we are staying for our next visit or ignore her? Interestingly enough SD asks us sometimes and we tell her. What are your thoughts? I've actually tried to put myself in BM's shoes and I feel that if my child is with her father, I shouldn't worry about where they are staying, just that they are enjoying each other. But then.. that's just me..