Laura - posted on 10/26/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
i met my boyfriend a year ago and now i'm pregnant with my first child... we are very happy but i have some concerns about his two beautiful boys... they're seven and three... the seven year old warmed up to me very quickly and he's excited about his new brother or sister... the three year old on the other hand sometimes he loves me sometimes he hates my guts... i really love them so it breaks my heart when he pushes me away like that... i'm wondering if it's just his age and he's just selfish unknowingly at three and eventually will grow out of it... or if he really probably has a problem with me. furthermore... i'm worried that once the baby is born... the two boys might feel neglected by their dad... or me... for no other reason than we see the baby every day and the boys twice a week and every other weekend. i'm wondering if there's any way to avoid that... i love the boys and i want them in my life forever... but i also forever want them to know that too!!!