Jaime - posted on 07/08/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
Just a question. Why is it always MY fault when my husband doesn't step up for his son?
I just can't understand what both my husband's problem and bm's problem is, there is a child's happiness at stake here. The child needs BOTH of there parents to shut up and respect one another. It is not a game of he did this, she did that. I don't think I will ever understand this.
Why do I always get dragged into another fight with bm about her situation with my husband regarding their son? I have tried to include him in our life, and I get constantly shit on?
I have said the exact same things I have ever said to bm to my husband and I don't get anywhere with either of them. Instead I end up being the home wrecker, and the evil sm that doesn't want my husband to see his other child. I would love for my daughters to see there brother more frequently than twice a year I would enjoy it myself.
I am very tired of being judged, talked about, downgraded and SHIT upon. I am not the one that so-called cheated, abused, neglected whatever else there is out there to be said. I know from the bottom of my heart my husband is an amazing father, he enjoys spending time with ALL of his children. But why am I talked about or punished for stating these facts.
Someone just tell me what I am supposed to do here???
Again I just don't get it girls?