Jill - posted on 12/13/2008 ( 40 moms have responded )
I have had a lot of stuggles with my hubby's ex.... she is VERY expressive on how awful a person I am (apparently!) to my step daughter. She also says awful things about my husband but has recently narrowed in on trying to poison my step daughter on what a bad person I am. It is all lies but to my step-daughter it is coming from her Mom so it has been very destructive. My step daughter now goes to her Dad about everything and doesnt give me the same respect as before. (I have been in her life since she was 2 - married her Dad when she was 6 and now have a one year old son with her Dad and she is now 9)... anyways I am hoping for some advice, it would be hard to sit down and have a talk with her (as would be my natural instinct) because her Mom will hear of it and call yelling and swearing with a completely different version of was has taken place...please help!!!!