Kathy - posted on 07/30/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Here`s the scoop, my husband has 2 kids with an x girlfriend a son 7yr old and a dau. 4yrs old. the son lives with us, only sees his mom every other wknd husband has had full custody of him since he was a toddler we got married when he was 4 and the dau comes over almost every wk and will stay from 2-4 days at a time. the problem is she gets on my nerves so bad!!! she doesnt listen at all she doesnt know how to listen her mom doesnt make her an lets her do whatever she wants then she comes over here and that doesnt fly around here then i feel bad cuz it seems all i do when shes here is yell at her or dicipline her its soo frustrating!! did i mention i have a 1yr old and a 9mo old too wit my husband there father i have a great relationship with her bro the 7yr old but he lives with me and ive been his mom for 3yrs now. i just want to have a better relationship wit her but its hard when she only over for a couple days at a time for her too to get used to how we do things around here the poor girl doesnt even have a place to call home she an her mom live with her moms friend but she pretty much lives wit her babysitter... any advice?