Kenesha - posted on 11/02/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
Ok here goes. My husband found out he had a son when the baby was 2 and a half months old. He/we got custody of him through CPS when he was 4 and a half months old due to the mother neglecting her 3 children and using methamphetamines. It then came to light that she used meth when she was pregnant with my husbands son :( and was using it around him after birth. Since we have had custody she makes barely any effort to see him, well she did at first but it has progressively gotten less and less.
IT has now been 8 months and she has provided nothing for him, rarely asks how he is, just does not seem worried at all. She more or less calls to talk to my husband, she does not even ask how Bently is doing or if he has started doing anything new. She pops up about every 6 weeks to see him and says MHMR has changed her medicine and made her forget everything, which we know is a lie because CPS tells us everything.
I am almost 5 months pregnant and this stress of this woman is driving me crazy. I wish she would either be in his life or be out. My husband has had temporary custody since March of 2013 and has had full custody since August of 2013. I need help on how to deal with her please!!!! I am evil to her because I care for her son 24/7. She should, in my eyes, be thankful he is not in foster care or something!