Rhonda - posted on 05/14/2009 ( 15 moms have responded )
I have been married to my hubby for 4 yrs now and we have 2 kids together, His older boys that live with bio-mom have came over upset latley, They have been asked by their mom to con extra money out of dad and to ask where the foc money is and why she is not getting HER money by the date that she wants it? I really feel that this is no concern of the kids and that she should not put them in the middle of this, We have told the boys that It is put thru the court and we have no control over when it gets their and that it is one of the first bills we take care of. Another thing I find upsetting is that she will corner the boys when they get back home from our house and ask them what WE are doing and how much money did dad spend on you. They are 12 and 14 and know that dad is the sole provider of them their mom has lost her job 3 months ago and the Step dad is alot younger and a alcholic who refuses to get a job and support the child that they have together.
It has gotten so upsetting latley for us that my hubby will not to answer the phone when she calls (the boys have their own phones so if they need dad he is just a call away) This has sent Bio-mom into a tantrum that I have never seen before, She is leaving very very upsetting nasty messages on voicemail and driving by our hosue and flicking us off . Our little kids were outside when she did this and now our son points with his middle finger.
I have had enough of the INSANE bio-mom and I am at my wits end with all the BS. I am thinking of taking all the voicemails to the police and filing harrasment aganst her, which may upset her more. But I have to protect my Family, Is there aynthing eles I can do to keep my family together and safe?