can't even allow me to have my own social network....

Community - posted on 09/27/2010

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Isobel - posted on 09/25/2010

key word there: BUNCH (of juveniles)

Jodi - posted on 09/25/2010

OK, I am going to say it, because this is fucking ridiculous. Francine, as you can see I have been a member around her for quite some time. I am familiar with Teresa, and I am a member of many of the communities where she has posted. Not ONCE do I recall her EVER slagging you off in the way you are doing here to her.

This issue should be between her and her ex. This has nothing to do with you. If you have issues, you need to sort it out between you and your husband. Do you think going around and slagging her off like this is helpful to him? Or for some sick, pathetic reason, do you think this behaviour is going to work positively toward a solution for the two families? Grow up!!! Take your grievances away from a public forum and leave it up to the two parents of the children to resolve. Act like the adult you are supposed to be.

And before you start saying I don't know how you feel, I do. I am a step-mother to 2 step-children, and also have my own child from a failed marriage. So I DO know how it works, and no-one in my scenario acted like such a bunch of juveniles.

Alahnna - posted on 09/25/2010

I'm just gonna go out on a limb here... but you say you're being attacked. But yet, it seems that your husbands ex was already a member here long before you posted here yesterday, and you just kind of said so in your post. Personally, I find it hard to believe you didn't know she was already a member here and that you aren't making these posts to antagonize her and make her look like one of those "horrible ex's". As I've been browsing through all these forums, I see most of your posts have had comments thrown in about custody battles and how you have to fight to see your step kids, not to mention one of the communities you joined was about being tired of crazy ex's or something along those lines. I could be wrong, but I haven't seen any posts from her on any of those (I could be wrong, feel free to correct me if I am). It seems to me she is the one who's character is being attacked and her social community being taken over by you, not the other way around.

Cat - posted on 09/24/2010

I am a stepmom to two kids, and I take a backseat to their needs, and their need to see and get support from their dad... And that's the way it SHOULD be... They didnt ask for their dad to not be with their mom any longer... You sound extremely whiney, and maybe need to stop pretending like you should be number one in your husband's life... I dont know anything about hacked emails, that is something you'll have to try and prove I guess, but you REALLY need to step back, your husband needs to be a father to all his kids FIRST and your husband SECOND... The grown up thing to do, would be to let your husband and his ex work out their issues with OUT your involvement, I'm sure she didnt ask to have you in her life any more than you did, the only difference is that you knew about her from the get-go... How about showing the mother of your husbands kids some respect?

Anyanka - posted on 09/24/2010

Yes, adultry makes me angry. I've seen her post on other boards, so I know this chicks history.

Isobel - posted on 09/24/2010

hmmm...Anyanka , I am curious what makes you think her husband was married when he met her. She never mentioned it. And you seem quite angry.

Francine..you are not alone in your situation...but you are in for it...good luck.

Anyanka - posted on 09/24/2010

Maybe you shouldn't sleep with married men, when their wives are pregnant. It is called Karma.

Marcella - posted on 09/23/2010

Francine, if you can prove she is the one attacking your emails and such then you can turn her in. I understand the whole thing of being attack for months and months I was called every name in the book by my husbands ex wife and it was told he left her for me which was not true and that I was ugly, and threats. Have you changed passwords and block her from everything it is possible that is what we have had to do on some things is block just to have a peace of mind. Hope that helps