Husbands that us and could care less about their children

Bernadette - posted on 09/10/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I am both a mom and a step mom, I have dealt with the women that think that all is alright with them raising your kids to those that have a problem with their new guy having children and the guy stops seeing the kids.

So what if the real mother is hurt and bothered that a new woman is caring for her child(ren). As a step mom you may love that child and care for that child but they still arent your child. You as a step mom may care and love and protect that child but that child isnt yours. Put yourself into the place of the mother it is the hardest thing in the world to let someone else care for your child.

And knowing that the father of the child isnt really going to do any better a job at parenting now then he did when he was with you, That he will let the step mom due the raising. That is hard and hurts too.

Think about it moms and step moms get the bad rap for everything while dead beat dads get away with everything. Try and understanding that some of the troubles that go on are due more to the dads and the crap they say and do not the moms or step moms.

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Marcella - posted on 09/12/2010

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You are right I guess I am one of the lucky ones my husband is an EXCELLENT father to his kids and my grown children

Bernadette - posted on 09/12/2010

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No we shouldnt treat our children or step children different no matter what we have the role of mom. But its time that the dads start dealing and do the dad jobs and moms and step moms stop getting the bad rap

Marcella - posted on 09/11/2010

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I agree to a point with your post hun but what about stepmoms and dad that work their tails off to provide a good home for the children while the bio mom sits and lives off welfare,lives with her mom (which is fine if she paid her own way),now going to live off child support and has clearly been found she can not parent a child without her mother there? I will forever be thankful for the stepmom my children had for 13 years before she passed of cancer, those children may not be ours so does that mean we should treat them any different if we are doing everything for them that their own bio mom does not do?

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