User - posted on 03/03/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
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FIRST TO KNOW THE WHOLE THING I MUST TELL YOU ABOUT THE BEING OF MY SON DENNIS'S LIFE IN AS SHORT OF A VERSON AS POSSIBLE; MY SON DENNIS FROM THE TIME HE WAS A BABY WAS ONE OF THOSE BABIES THAT DID NOT SLEEP BUT ONLY 2 HOURS IN THE DAY, HE WAS AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS HIS OLDER BROTHER AND WAS THE BABY HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN OVERLY NEEDY. WHEN I HAD MY THIRD SON DENNIS WAS THREE AND HE WOULD TRY TO SMOTHER HIS BABY BROTHER AND HE SCRATCHED HIS BABY BROTHERS FACE; KEEP IN MIND I WAS REPORTING THIS ALL TO THE BOY'S PEDIATRICIAN AT HUCLA IN TORRANCE CA THAT TIME IN 2002 AND NEVER LISTENED TO MY PLEADS FOR A CHILD PSYCHIATRIST FOR MY SON DENNIS. WELL SHE JUST ASSUMED I COULD NOT HANDLE IT AND WAS UPSET AT THE SCRATCHES HE MADE ON HIS BABY BROTHER ONLY TIME SHE STARTED TO LISTEN THEN BUT TOOK IT IN HER MANNER TO ADMIT DENNIS IN THE HOSPITAL. A CHILD PSYCHIATRIST CAME TO SEE ME AND SHE WAS GOING OUT OF TOWN BUT i MADE PLANS TO MEET WITH HER WHEN SHE CAME BACK FOR DENNIS, YET THE DOCTORS TOOK IT UPON THEM SELVES AND FELT THAT FOSTER PLACEMENT WOULD BE GOOD AND HE COULD GET EVALUATED THEN AND 6 MONTH HE WOULD BE RETURNED. NEVER HAPPENED 2 YEARS LATER AFTER WARDS HE WAS DIAGNOSED BUT ONLY AFTER BEING SHIPPED TO SO MANY PLACEMENTS CAUSE HE WAS TOO MUCH FOR THEM HE ENDED UP AT BIENO VISTA IN ALTADENA CA WERE HE FINALLY GOT DIAGNOSED WITH ADHD. WELL HE WENT TO ONE LAST PLACEMENT AFTER THAT THEN AFTER WARDS HE GOT MEDICATED AND ALL THAT TIME OF BLAMING ME FOR THE WAY HE WAS THE WHOLE TIME AS IF I MADE HIM ACT BADLY; IT WAS, "SORRY YOUR SON HAS ADHD AND HERE YOU CAN HAVE HIM BACK NOW WITH STIPULATIONS THAT HE CAN NEVER BE LEFT ALONE WITH HIS SIBLINGS.." THE COURT SAID. WELL FIVE YEARS OF FAMILY COUNSELING, INDIVIDUAL COUSILING, GROUP BEHAVIOR MANAGEMENT, PARENT GROUPS AND MOVED TO GRASS VALLEY, WITH DENNIS AND HIS BROTHERS AND TRANSFERRED ALL TO MENTAL HEALTH AND EMQ FAMILY FIRST AGENCY COUSILING AND THEIR PSYCHIATRIST FOR A YEAR IN MARCH HE ONLY GET WORST AND HE HAS DEVELOPED mANIC BIPOLAR AND DEFIANT DISORDER DIAGNOSE SINCE 2006 AND ADHD TOO. THERE HAS BEEN NO CHANGES HE GETS WORSE WITH AGE AND AGAIN NOW i AM BEING BLAMED FOR HIS BEHAVIOR HAVE HAD CPS TO MY HOUSE FOUR TIMES FOR UN JUSTIFIABLE UNTRUE REASONS AND THIS LAST ONE CAME LESLIE SCOTT THIS PAST FRIDAY LAST WEEK. THE REPORT WAS ON ME MISSING HIS LAST TWO PSYCHIATRY APPOINTMENTS DECEMBER AND JANUARY. THE EMQ AGENCY NEW IT WAS JUSTIFIABLE REASON IN DECEMBER MY 2 MONTH OLD HAD GOTTEN SICK WITH A 103 AND 104 TEMPERATURES AND SHE HAD TO BE IN THE HOSPITAL FOR A WEEK I AND MY HUSBAND BOTH OF COURSE STAYED BY HER SIDE AND I BREAST FEED SO SHE BEING MY HUSBANDS FIRST BLOOD CHILD HE WANTED TO BE THERE EVERY MINUTE. THEN IN JANUARY TWO HOURS MY RIDE I HAD SET UP TO MAKE TO DENNIS APPT CANCELED OUT AND NEVER SHOWED I LET THE AGENCY KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON AND THAT HE WAS OK ON A FEW CAPSULE HE TAKE IN MORNING BUT HE RAN OUT OF IS MID AFTER NOON WHICH HE IS IMMUNED TO ANYWAY. SHE GOT THE PRESCRIPTION TO ME I GOT IT FILLED THAT DAY (EVEN THOUGH IT'S AGAINST MY RELIGION BUT ALWAYS THOUGHT I HAD NO CHOICE FOR SIX YEARS TILL NOW) ANYWAY; AND GOT THE MEDICATION HE TAKES TO THE SCHOOL. SINCE YEAH; THE SCHOOL WANTED TO GIVE IT TO HIM CAUSE THEY THINK I WAS NOT GIVING IT TO HIM DUE TO HOW HE ACTS AT SCHOOL. THE MEDICATION DOES NOT CONTROL HIS ACTIONS AND CHOICES HE KNOWS ALL HE DOES IS WRONG AND HE LIES STEALS MANIPULATES AND CONS PEOPLE OUT OF THINGS MONEY AND WHATEVER IS IN IT FOR HIM OR TO GET REVENGE OUT ON WHO EVER ANGERED HIM. POLICE HAVE TALKED TO HIM HE BEEN PLACED IN PROGRAMS THAT THEY FELT WOULD HELP HIM. NO IMPROVEMENTS. HE'S DONE THINGS WHEN HE WAS PLACED ON PAROLE HE VIOLATED THE PAROLE AND THE NEVADA COUNTY PAROLE DEPARTMENT DID NOTHING HE VIOLATED A 2 YEAR OLD BOY AND NOTHING WAS DONE. HE CAME BACK TO ME LIKE THIS AFTER THE FIRST C.P.S. PLACEMENT. NOW BETWEN HIS LIES HE TELLS ABOUT HIS HOME LIFE AND THE EMQ REPORTING THINGS THAT THE JUSTIFIABLE MISSHAPS ABOUT APPTS AMD MEDS THIS LAST WORKER CLAIMED THEY TAKE ALL MY KIDS NOT JUST DENNIS WHEN I STATED THAT IF THEY TAKE DENNIS I WAS NOT WANTING TO HAVE HIM BACK DUE TO THE FACT HE MAKES PEOPLE BELIEVE HE GET STARVED, BEAT, AND THAT HE HAS TO HAVE AT LEAT 5 DOLLAR BEFORE I LET HIM BACK IN THE HOUSE JUST TO CON PEOPLE OUT OF MONEY HE WANTS OR HE STEALS IT., ALSO I TOLD HER THAT BECAUSE I AM DEALING WITH HIS CRIMINAL, IMMORAL BEHAVIOR HE CAME BACK IN MY HOME WITH FROM THE FIRST TIME WITH C.P.S. IN SOUTHERN CA. AND NOW HERE THEY ARE TRYING TO DO THE SAME BUT THIS TIME BY COUNSELING AGENCIES AND C.P.S. HERE IN GRASS VALLEY, CA. WHICH IS CONSIDERED NEVADA COUNTY. I HAD GROUNDS FOR A LAW SUIT BEFORE BUT I JUST DID WHAT I HAD TO DO TO GET DENNIS BACK AT THAT TIME. NOW I KNOW IF MY OTHER KIDS ARE TOUCH BY THEM THERE IS GROUNDS FOR A LAWSUIT DUE TO THE FACT MY KIDS ARE NOT NEGLECTED IN ANY WAY, AND NOT ABUSED IN ANY WAY AND SAME WITH DENNIS DESPITE WHATEVER HE DOES OR SAYS HE NEVER LEARNED/ NEVER SEEN OR BEEN ANY THOSE THINGS BY ME OR BY ANYONE WHEN EVER IN MY HOME AND THEY ARE SO DESPERATE THAT THIS LAST C.P.S. WORKER LOOKED LIKE SHE WAS LOOKING FOR ANY REASON IN MY HOME EVEN IF SHE HAD TO MAKE SOMETHING UP AND LIE AND TURN IT INTO SOMETHING IT'S NOT LIKE TINA ZAHABI DID-SHE WAS THE SECOND C.P.S. WORKER THAT TRYED TO MAKE ME LOOK AND SOUND UNFIT IN 2002 BUT WAS COMPLAINTS ON HER CAUGHT UP WITH HER LAST TIME I HEARD I QUESS SHE MESSED WITH OTHER PARENTS TOO. BUT THAT'S WHAT THESE WORKERS DO AND BLAME YOU AND SAY, "A CHILDS BEHAVIOR IS A REFLECTION OF THE PARENT." NO WAY I NEVER LIED AND MADE UP STORIES OR STOLEN ANYTHING AND NEVER TOUCH ANYONE TO MOLEST THEM AND I NEVER HARMED ANYONE AND I RAISED ALL MY KIDS WITH STRONG CHRISTIAN MORALS AND VALUES AND THE 10 COMMANDMENTS ARE MY MAIN HOUSE RULES FOR MY KIDS. DENNIS IS THE ONLY ONE THAT DEFYS ALL OF IT THE ONLY COMMANDMENT HE HAS NOT BROKEN IS "THOU SHALT NOT KILL BUT ATTEMPTED ASSULT ON A LITTLE GIRL CLASS MATE." AND I PRAY HE NEVER DOES. BUT IF THEY KEEP TRYING TO BLAME ME AND BELIEVE HIS MEDCINE WILL STOP HIM FROM HIS CHOICES HE KNOW IS WRONG CAUSE IS A VERY INTELLIGENT BOY AND HAS LEARNED HOW TO WORK PEOPLE AND HE IS A PRETEEN AND BEEN GETTING WORSE WITH EVERY PASSING YEAR REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAS BEEN TRIED WITH HIM. WELL THAT IS IN A SHORTER VERSION AND HOPE YOU CAN RUN MY STORY I AM POSITIVE OTHERS WOULD FIND THIS INFORMATION OF HOW SCREWED UP THE CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES ARE. AND I WOULD LIKE MY STORY TOLD TO LET THESE PEOPLE KNOW THEY WILL GET SUED IF THEY DON'T STOP MESSING WITH A GREAT DECENT FAMILY HOME AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN DESPITE MY SONS BEHAVIOR I PROVIDED AND RAISE ALL MY KIDS RIGHT; NOT MY FAULT DENNIS WON'T FOLLOW IT ALL OUT SIDE MY HOME OR OTHER MORE IMPORTANT MATTERS COME UP OR TRANSPORTATION NOT AVAILABLE ALL THE TIME OR EVERY SINGLE TIME. THE LATEST WAS SHE CLAIMS THE SCHOOL REPORTED ME TALKING BAD TO MY SON WITCH IS FUNNY CAUSE IHAVE NOT BEEN TO THE SCHOOL SINCE jAN 4TH 2011 FOR A MEETING TO DISCUSS MY SONS EHAVIORS AT SCHOOL HE IS GOOD AT HOME BUT AT SCHOOL AND IN OUTDOOR SETTINGS HE IS THE WAY HE IS. BUT IT LIKE I SAID THEY ARE TRYING TO PORTRAY HIM THE VITOM WHEN HE IS THE ONE OUT THERE VICTOMIZING AND NO ONE WILL DO ANYTHING. MY SON HAS DONE SO MUCH THAT WOULD OF PUT ANY ADULT BEHIND BARS FOR 25 TO LIFE. BUT THEY SYSTEM IS JUST LETTING HIM GET AWAY WITH IT HE KNOWS HOW TO FOOL INGNORANT PEOPLE LIKE THESE AGENCYS THAT WORK WITH HIM AND ALSO ANYONE HE READS TO BE A PUSH OVER. HE'S HIGHLY INTELEGENT AND GOOD AT SWITCHING TO VICTOM FEEL SORRY FOR ME WITH LIES AND ANY METHOD HE CAN THINK OF. BUT THEY ARE TO BUSY TRYING TO MAKE HIM THE VICTOM HE IS VICTOMIZING AND THAT I TO BE IGNORED CPS TOLD ME I NEED TO INGNORE WHAT HE DOES AND FIND ANYTHING LIKE HE CLEANS HIMSELF WHEN TOLD TO PRAISE HIM FOR THAT AND IGNORE THAT HE TRIED TO PUSH A GIRL IN FRONT OF A CAR? THESES PEOPLE ARE INSANE AND IF I DISAGREE I AM THE PROBLEM I DON'T THINK SO.
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