Courtney - posted on 11/09/2008 ( 4 moms have responded )
I dont really know where to start, i am kinda nervous bout havein this baby. I cant wait but i am still kinda nervous. The father of the baby and i are no longer together, it was hell the first couple months that i was pregnant b/c all we did was fight bout everythin and i thought that this was gunna be really bad. He told me to have an abortion b/c he did not want another male to be with me and have the baby call him daddy. But i wanted to have the baby. i was the one that had sex so i am the one that has to pay the consq. After a few months went by i found the love of my life, his name is Jacob! He is way excitied bout the baby and cant wait to be a daddy, however he too is nervous!
Here are my questions:
How do you know things are gunna be ok?
What if i need the comfort of jake but dont know how to ask him for it?
How can i afford a baby bein 18 and workin jobs that dont really pay enough?
I really cant wait to have her! she makes my day better just to feel her move and watch my tummy look like a wave going back and forth. The first time Jake felt her move his eyes got really big and he thought that it was the coolest thing ever.
How do i thank him enough for being there for me when i just really wasn't sure if i was ready to be a mom or not?
I feel like i am ready to have her, but becomein a mother at 18 does not seem.... i dont even know what the word is. so bascially i am pretty scared bout havin my baby, i dont want Jake to feel like he has to be there even though he wants to be... i just hope everythin works out!
any ideas or suggestions let me know!