Raewyn - posted on 03/10/2010 ( 9 moms have responded )
ok well i have a slight problem, my babys dad is only supportive when he wants to or feels like being, we been 2gether 4 2years now and have a 5month old, during mi pregnancy he treated me like it was easy ta b preg, i worked rite through till i was 8months, he never gave me massages or helped round the house i pretty much had to tough it out right through, i thought maybe once the baby arrived he wuld become more supportive but now he works 7days a week 8hour shifts, iv just only recently swiched her over to formula now as i no longer have enough breast milk 4 her due to stress, i had ta go 2 a mother craft center to get her puttin back on weight as she was beginning ta loose it and i just needed a break,goin there was amazing 4 both us and i thought maybe now she was on bottle my bf culd help with the night time feeding once and a while..he says he would but he has work and he needs his sleep bla bla..i know he loves our lil girl ta peices and he works really hard ta support us both but i pretty much feel like a single parent rather then a family, and wot frustrates me is when we go round to familys place he takes over with baby acting like he does his fair share of helpin with baby wen he doesnt..and another thing he wont let me out and hang owt with my old m8s like to a club or something but when he wants to its ok..he says im a mother now and shouldnt be out partyn when its like once a month i do go out!!! and i dont have any other mum friends that i could see and i dont want to loose contact with my olsd school mates, im still young and have sacrificed alot but id sacrifice alot more if i had to, grrr am i in the wrong?? am i being selfish?? or am i righte 4 once abowt this?