Anybody else a teen mom with babydaddy issues!!!!

Shawana - posted on 01/30/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )

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Hi my name Shawana and i have a 1 year old baby girl. My babydaddy decided not to care and deny my baby when she was five months after i broke up with him. He's a trip i was supporting him from day one gas,food,money he had no job. I told him just be therefore his child but afer the breakup she gets nothing from him. He claims he doesn't got anything when he found out i filed 4 child support but he buys a 2002 Cadillac Deville, jordans every week and got a over ten thousand dollar settlement he's retarted i can't believe i use 2 sleep and be with him!!

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Kayleigh - posted on 02/04/2010

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i have a beautiful 5 week old daughter and me and my ex split up before i found out i was pregnant. when i did find out i told him straight away like you would and he called me a liar and told me i was only saying it so he would get back with me. all the way though my pregnancy after that incident he would phone me everyday without fail and ask how me and the baby were doing. he would come to my scans and even kept scan photos. then a few weeks before i had my little girl he disappeared and noone knew where he gone. the day after my daughter was born we got rushed back into hospital and i got a txt from his mum saying that he didnt want to know me or our baby. it kills me because i look at her and wonder what we have done to deserve it. shes done nothing to him. hes man enough to lay down with a girl but cant handle his responsibilities. coward i say. he should of kept it in his pants. he knew the risks!!!

Breann - posted on 02/04/2010

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I'm sixteen and he's nineteen will be twenty this month, he doesn't have a job or anything and just keeps talkin about me behind my back.. He wasn't there for the nine months i was pregnant and still isnt here..

My daughter is almost 3 month old and he has only seen her once.. Doesn't claim her won't pay child support or ask how she is.. I put the effort in to lettin him see her and he just denies it and says i was whoring around so she isnt his.. HELLO she looks exactly like him.. Pathetic..

Some guys just need to grow up and be more mature! I'm still in highschool and have trouble taking care of her and going.. I need money but i can't get a job and juggle everything else on top of that

Shawana - posted on 02/01/2010

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I paid the testing fee three times b4 I filed for Child Support to prove he is the father but he go M.I.A when the time comes and he got his grandma or whoever to call me calling me a whore and all like i did something wrong he cheated and calls me and my daughter out our name and his mom took my baby hostage and i still tried with no luck i just wanted to prove to all of them he is the father and go on but might as well try for child support

Kymberlee - posted on 02/01/2010

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Im so happy to hear that there are people out there that I can relate with. I am still pregnant and my boyfriend and I were living together when we found out i was pregnant and when I was 3 and a half months he decided to leave me for another girl and kick me out. before he was all about the baby and he said he would support me no matter what but now that he is with this girl he has started to deny the baby and has taken the rest of my stuff at his house and wont return it what do i do? take him for child support and forget about him?

Tyne - posted on 02/01/2010

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I know how yh feel ! the first thing my ex biyfriend said to me when found out i was pregnant was to get an abortion and after i said that i wouldnt do that to we got on ok but it turned violent and we split up ive got postnal depression of all the stress of looking afte my baby alone because he wont step up to the mark and be a dad.but with his agression and having to get the police on him ive decided i dont want him around me or the baby in case he hurt the baby and when i told him he called me a slag and a rat and all these bad names and now he only tells me about how he's going to take the baby away from me and how im a shit mum !!

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I know what you guys feel! the first thing my ex biyfriend said to do after we found out i was pregnant was to put the baby up for adoption and after i said that i wouldnt do that to my baby he decided he wanted to actually step up. then i went through all this stress when my house burned down and instead of helping me and comforting me he just stressed me out even more. so i told him to leave and that if he didnt get mental help [he's very bipolar] that i didnt want him around me or the baby and instead of getting help he called me a whore and all these bad names and now he only harasses me about how he's going to take the baby and how i'm going to be such a bad mom.

Gienysa - posted on 01/31/2010

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I'm with all of you my son's who's almost four his father denied him when his new girlfriend decided she didn't want him to talk to me. Stupid him thought that was okay. I was 5 1/2 months pregnant and he didn't get any sense until everyone had seen him, my son was 3 months then. I was trying to mature though I was 16 and he was 19. Oh well when I filed child support he denied him and we got a DNA test. To his shock his son who looks just like him was his and he still can't make his $200 a month payment. Shawana love your daughter and remember it's his lost she will always know her mother and that's more important than money.

Ka'Shia - posted on 01/31/2010

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My son is exactly a mont and 2weeks and his sperm donor(his father) denied him since we found out we was havin a baby (8months into pregnancy). Yet he claims my son to ppl he dont know and ppl who dont give a fuck about him or his issues. I can believe I slept with him bcuz I was in luv with him. I can actually say he is confused abt his emotions bcuz its like he luvs us then he hates(or should I say dislikes)us then he luvs us again like wtf. I know what u r goin through even though u r havin problems now ur child will b fine with or with put him.

Kayla - posted on 01/31/2010

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I was wit my baby daddy for alomost 3 1/2 yrs...we have a wonderful 3 yr...he doesnt pay his child support n doesnt want to b there for our son....he doesnt even care....i now live 8 hrs from him wit my husband...my baby daddy only calls 1 a month if that...the last time he saw his son was the day after christmas for 45 min...my son doesnt even want nethin to do wit his dad....he saw his dad do a lot of dumb shit...he calls him daddy jackass....however he looks up to my husbad n calls him daddy jessie...i kno exactly wat u guys r goin thru...ive been doin it for 3 yrs now...if u ever need to talk im here

Kaytea - posted on 01/30/2010

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Hey im with you hun, my daughter is almost 9 months old, and her father desided he didnt want to be there anymore, after he got a new girlfriend. We dated for two years and he started dating someone else after not being together for a month.. He has seen our daughter once in three weeks and that day he started yelling at his mom right in front of her... Other then that nothing, no child support, no seeing her, not even asking how she is... If you wanna talk let me know.

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