Amanda - posted on 03/31/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
okay so i was with my sons father for 6 months when i got pregnant. i didn;t know he had cheated on me when our son was.. created but i found out a week later! i was giving him a month to see if i could handle trying to forgive him and at the end of that month i got a positive pregnancy test! i took it as a sign and stayed. that's when things went down hill.. he lied all the time about who he was with where he was. he lied to everyone. i thought it was him freaking out about being a father. turns out he also cheated on me with around 3-5 girls (he Denies it, but i find it hard to believe that many girls were hacking his account finding every new password just to get to him). when i got put on bed rest i saw even less of him. i had preeclampsia and an irritable uterus so getting stressed out could be VERY bad and he knew that but he still lied i caught him one day he had spent the night one town over and kept saying he was at home (would have been fine if he had told the truth) after i found out and got upset he broke up with ME the next day we decided it was a break from each other for one week. during which if i called having a panic attack he YELLED at me. the day after we had started hanging out again our friend committed suicide... at the funeral i found out he had been telling people for a month that we weren't together and he was single. for some reason i stayed and he kept lying. i was an idiot for staying so long. when our son was born by c-section he seemed more excited about the scrubs then for the baby and showed no concern for me. the next day he left me there alone. i didn;t see him much after that.. when our son was three months i broke up with him and he came crawling back begging i gave him a chance. he seemed to have changed but i found out he didn;t when i had to move across the country. he was following a month after me. while i was gone once again it was the "i'm single' deal. he even dated a 14 year old (we were 18) and flirted with my ex friend. he got out here and I didn;t find anything out till a few months after. i decided i couldn;t be with him and broke up with him.. a week later i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant. now he's living it up and doesn;t hesitate to rub it in my face. he's even friend with his ex who he claimed was trying to break us up when i found emails between them. and today he called because he was upset and needed someone to talk to. i told him to call someone else. i want him to see his kids but im so sick of talking to him or thinking aobut him. he hurt me beyond belief. he barely showed an interest in his son and i still have yet to see a child support payment. he was the first and only guy i've ever been with. now I'm scared of relationships because i can;t trust anyone. anyone else have big problems with they're babies dads? can anyone relate to this? does anyone else not get along with they're babies dad but the dad and kids still see each other?