Kimie - posted on 10/19/2009 ( 17 moms have responded )
Okay, so my baby's father and I just recently broke up at the beginning of this month and he's now dating another girl. That's pretty much the least of my problem right now. He and I are on okay terms at the moment, this changes at times, and we've been talking about what's going to happen when Jacob (our son) is born near end of January, early February. I had the idea of having him stay with me for the first week after he is born with me and my dad, since that is where I'll be living, and help out with him since my dad has his own full time job and won't be able to. He was fine with that until he came up with this "brilliant" plan for the two of us to get an apartment together, with 3 bedrooms so we wouldn't be sharing a room. I've been tossing this in the air for about a week now and am still unsure as to what to do. He says that he doesn't want to miss out in his son's life and doesn't want him living two hours away from him, which I can understand. But our relationship wasn't the best because of fighting and things. So there I see a problem with living with him. Another would be, he'd be bringing girls home and I'm still somewhat stuck on him, so it would pretty much break my heart seeing him with another girl (I have yet to actually see him with this new one). I'm just incredibly confused on what to do. If anyone could please help I'd greatly appreciate it. thanks!