Aliesha - posted on 02/27/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )
ok so i'm 19 with a wee 20month old boy. I was with my son's father near on 5years. about a month ago i discovered he had another girl who he had been seeing for months. now this was the same girl I had suspected he had something going on with but he convinced me I was totally paranoid. now not only am i expected to smile and act ok when they are around but i'm supposed to let this girl near my child. the thing is my ex hasn't entirely let go of me and the other day cheated on her with me. of course I told her but although she thinks I'm making it up she is making my life hell. and now my normally placid and chilled child is having serious nightmares and behavoural issues.
I really don't know what to do, my boundaries are exploited and I feel like my son is missing out. none of this makes sense and I can't help still having feelings for him, as we were together so long and have a child.. what do i do?