baby daddy is crazyish,boyfriend is immature but wants to be daddy confused!!!!

Mandynharley2010 - posted on 09/05/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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im 19 harley(my 5 month old lil girl) has a daddy thats 28 skitzo, milkin the system cuz hes not that bad, he has a gf for over 9 years was with me for one got me pregnant then left hes confused my current boyfriend loves the baby but he is very very needy and immature, her father just now said he kind of wanted to "be a father" im confused

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Brie - posted on 09/06/2010

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I love guys names for girls, sorry I had to compliment your name (it was if you can find it, as some might not see it as one I love it point being), now I can't give the answer you want (maybe ) I'm just gonna tell you how I see well what I see, I don't know them, so I can't really give you the best answer and I'm sure there is too much stuff hard stuff to talk about and stuff that is private anyway that could make what I see different but from what I read I think you should have the father be in her life but supervised till she can talk, it doesn't have to be a big deal, just say you want to spend time together for whtever your reason would be, and as for the boyfriend, well he should know you had 1 kid, and for the time being you are only going to take care of 1 kid and the kid happens to be the youngest so if he wants to act immature wait his turn till your child is much much older which by the time your bf should probably be too far mature he wouldn't care to be immature and if he is too immature then he has to go your kid is number one, you are number 2, you're the primary caregiver right so you have to be as good as you can be for anything to happen and well everyone else comes 3rd and so on, so he will just have to be fine with being 3rd or he's not worth it

Jasmine - posted on 09/06/2010

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is your baby daddy implying that he wants to be more involved in your daughter's life?

if you feel that way about your current, why are you with him? (that part confuses me, sorry...I'm not being harsh if thats what I come across as) Maybe you guys should talk about things and discuss about your relationship. Communication is def key!

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