Being a teen mom is hard. But a SINGLE teen mom, even more hard.

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Erica - posted on 05/01/2010

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Courtney - posted on 04/27/2010

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Unfortunatly I can't say I have experienced it but I can imagine it would be hard being a single mum.



And all I can do is wish you the best of luck and yeah, hang in there =]

Jessica - posted on 04/17/2010

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you will be alright! i hope you have people who suport you, it makes it a little easier knowing people belive in you. best of luck!

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Christine - posted on 01/03/2014

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Hello how are you I am helping a 15 yr old with a child and it is hard and a strong support group is needed . If you are in the Jacksonville Florida area let me know you both can give each other support . E-mail me if so she is in the Arlington area of Jacksonville Florida my email is c_majoy@yahoo.com . Thank you.

Ajsa - posted on 11/08/2013

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being a single mom is really hard my little ones dad just left me but i should have seen it coming cause he kicked me out of the house with her just about 2 months ago and i gave him another chance after that, he now has not seen his child or even asked to see her its so hard cause for some reason i still love the guy and its like he docent care at all..

Dani - posted on 09/01/2013

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Im 16 and just found out im pregnant. The guy Im seeing or should I say was seeing until I told him yesterday wants me to get rid of it and says he wont see or speak to me unless I do. Also I may add I was told I would never have kids so this is a shock! I need someone to talk to and I need help!

Lindsay - posted on 08/27/2013

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I am no longer a teen but I had my first daughter when I was 19. I wanted a child so bad then and didn't really think about how hard it was going to be and how my life would change forever. I had a rocky couple of first years with her but had alot of support from my parents. The father was never in the picture. I had my 2nd daughter four months ago(I am now 27). It was definitely easier with this one probably because it was my second and I am a lot older and I have already given up everything in my life. When I had my first, a lot of my friends disappeared and I was always stuck at home by myself( I have kinda become somewhat of a Hobbit, never really leave my house.) My 4 month old's dad left when I was one month pregnant and has had no contact with me until 3 weeks ago when he found out I wanted child support, so Now I get to deal with a custody battle, but thats beside the point. Being a teen mom was very hard and sometimes I wish I could go back and just have waited 3 extras years before I started having children but at the same time I would never trade my children for anything. Kudos to all the single teen moms out there I know its hard but it's totally worth it in the end.

Jade Louise - posted on 01/12/2013

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yes thats right it is hard .. even though im with my baby dad feels like im a single mum .. hes left all throughout my pregnancy xx i love being a mum my sons 10 months and nearlly walks its soooo great watching you baby grow up .. ilove my son to peices x i have a facebook page so http://www.facebook.com/TeenageMumsAndTe... feel free yall xx

Collins - posted on 01/11/2013

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Collins - posted on 01/11/2013

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I want to make a Big thanks to a man that just brought back my ex woman and my Kid back to my life through his spell casting,i thought Dr.Ogungbe is a fake when i first meet him due to our Language differences and he told me that there is nothing i should be worried about because he is ready to help me and he promise that my Husband will be the one to call me begging me that he wants me back,i thought it was a joke,to my surprise this happen and Mark my Husband and ZAK my Kid is back to me now and i am very happy with the help of Mr.Ogungbe that bring back happiness into my life..
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or email address ifaogungbetempleofsolution@gmail. com

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Collins - posted on 01/11/2013

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I want to make a Big thanks to a man that just brought back my ex woman and my Kid back to my life through his spell casting,i thought Dr.Ogungbe is a fake when i first meet him due to our Language differences and he told me that there is nothing i should be worried about because he is ready to help me and he promise that my Husband will be the one to call me begging me that he wants me back,i thought it was a joke,to my surprise this happen and Mark my Husband and ZAK my Kid is back to me now and i am very happy with the help of Mr.Ogungbe that bring back happiness into my life..
if you really need help or you are looking for a way to know him,you can contact him on +2348131210107
or email address ifaogungbetempleofsolution@gmail. com

Mr Collins
United Kingdom

Collins - posted on 01/11/2013

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I want to make a Big thanks to a man that just brought back my ex woman and my Kid back to my life through his spell casting,i thought Dr.Ogungbe is a fake when i first meet him due to our Language differences and he told me that there is nothing i should be worried about because he is ready to help me and he promise that my Husband will be the one to call me begging me that he wants me back,i thought it was a joke,to my surprise this happen and Mark my Husband and ZAK my Kid is back to me now and i am very happy with the help of Mr.Ogungbe that bring back happiness into my life..
if you really need help or you are looking for a way to know him,you can contact him on +2348131210107
or email address ifaogungbetempleofsolution@gmail. com

Mr Collins
United Kingdom

Collins - posted on 01/11/2013

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I want to make a Big thanks to a man that just brought back my ex woman and my Kid back to my life through his spell casting,i thought Dr.Ogungbe is a fake when i first meet him due to our Language differences and he told me that there is nothing i should be worried about because he is ready to help me and he promise that my Husband will be the one to call me begging me that he wants me back,i thought it was a joke,to my surprise this happen and Mark my Husband and ZAK my Kid is back to me now and i am very happy with the help of Mr.Ogungbe that bring back happiness into my life..
if you really need help or you are looking for a way to know him,you can contact him on +2348131210107
or email address ifaogungbetempleofsolution@gmail. com

Mr Collins
United Kingdom

Jackiey - posted on 10/05/2012

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hayley - thats a great thing that you did to keep your baby . I decided to keep my baby to and not abort or do adoption no matter the looks i got. This is the time when you find out who is real n who is fake. I admire you :)

Tia - posted on 10/02/2012

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What kind of question is this.This is not even a question.Its just a statement.Thanks for letting us know what we already know.

Hayley - posted on 09/13/2012

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I was 14 years old when I feel pregnant...Why? Because my 19 year old boyfriend wanted a baby and i was "in love". I decided to keep my baby even though nobody agreed with my decision, leaving me with nothing but my bump and my boyfriend. I was 15 years old when I gave birth to my gorgeous little boy who was born healthy.



Unfortunately, things became nasty with the father and I lived a life of hell for 2 years, isolated and lonely. There came a day where I escaped from him and returned to my home country, being England.



For the last year and a half, I have been a single, teenage mom. I am proud to be who I am and I wouldn´t change any of what has happened for a million. Some young moms have help and do ok due to all the advice and help you get. I learnt that the best way to do things, is to do it by yourself.



My son is now almost 4 and I will be 19 in 2 months. We couldn´t be closer and I couldn´t be more proud of him. The bond we have is beautiful, perfect and nobody will ever change that.



Being a young mom isn´t about how to be the best mom or have the nicest clothes for your baby...It´s about fighting for your child and not letting yourself fall. It´s about giving up EVERYTHING for your child, giving them everything you never had and loving them to the very last day.



If i was 14 again, I would have probably waited to have my baby. I disagree with young girls getting pregnant for the sake of it and then expecting other people to help out all the time. At the same time, I know that there are young moms out there who should be proud and never let anyone get them down.

Jackiey - posted on 08/26/2012

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13 year old here 7 months pregnant due in october . SINGLE. it will be tough but not impossible we can do it girl:)

Amber - posted on 05/23/2012

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I agree! its one of the most stressful things ive ever gone through but its also well worth it! ♥

Gemma - posted on 01/07/2012

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Im sixteen & the baby daddy sees my son when he feels like it. Aside from the lack of sleep, frustration, & all the piled up schoolwork. I wish I wouldve thought twice before fallin for the most immature eighteen yr old in tx. My depression is affecting everything I do & I hope that the sadness getting to my son thru breastfeeding is a false myth.

Your not alone & if ur strong for your kid, everything will work out. Everything gets paid back in life. It helps me to tell myself that

Kassi - posted on 05/01/2010

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I'm a single teen mom and it's not hard for me actually. I just focaus on my daughter and her needs, and my mom helps me when she gets home so I have a break because every mother needs alittle bit of space away from their child

Becky - posted on 04/30/2010

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im a single mam i just focus all my time on nathan and my parents help when i need it. if its getting to ard you might be able to ask your fam for help or get a baby sitter so you can do the things you need to d aswell as looking after the youngen

Breann - posted on 04/28/2010

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Honestly it isn't as hard as people make it out to be. I'm almost seventeen and have a five month old. I'm single. Her father wants to sign over his rights and have nothing to do with it. It would be a lot harder if he was a part time dad. I like it how it is. You'll find someone to be the father figure to your babyy. Best of luck to ya. You can talk to me any time you need to.

Monique - posted on 04/24/2010

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I totally agree with erika! When me & Angus' dad split I thought I would kill myself but I had the love & support of my mother & father who have been inspirational rocks for me, things will get easier, it just may take a while

Erika - posted on 04/18/2010

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Very Hard.I'm 18 & A Mother Of 2.I Cry Myself To Sleep Every Night Because it's Just Me,My Mother Helps Me Out With My Oldest But it's Not The Same As Having Your Boyfriend Or Husband.It Gets Frustrating Tiring And Many Other Things But Remember Your Kids Are A Gift From God No Matter What Age & They Will Thank You Later On in Life :)

Amy - posted on 04/18/2010

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there are alot of us out there. and really the fact that we do it on our own just shows how strong we really are. it is very hard, but at the end of the day you have a precious child who loves and depends on you. there is nothing more character defining than that. it makes us who we are.. you will do great! xx

Faith - posted on 04/17/2010

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i am a single teen mom and still in high school gettin my diploma. at times it can be hard but if u got a carin lovin family who r supportive than it will be all ok. i know gettin up really early and goin to bed real late sucks but u will get use to it. my sister is pregnant and single so ur not alone out there. just keep ur head up and stay strong and u will be just fine. :) just believe in urself

Kenyetta - posted on 04/17/2010

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im not a teen im 23 but i have 3 children agen 3,2,1 no im serious thats there ages!but reguardless if your a teen or older single motherhood is hard some days are better than others but dont give up you gotta b strong for your child or children i get judged everyday that jus makes me a stronger more motivated woman!(and you should feel the same )

Hana-Lily - posted on 04/17/2010

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yes it is very hard but its so worth it for your baby. your not alone trust me! xx

Michelle - posted on 04/17/2010

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I have a friend who is a single mum of 2 girls she is a great mum just need to grt oragnized :)

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