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Breakup and pregnant, help?!

Jen - posted on 07/11/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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So my the father of my baby, and I, are broken up. Well, I broke up with him because he was never around, although we lived together. He was constantly out with friends (drinking, partying etc) and never spent ANY time with me. All he did was fight with me and I couldn't deal with the stress. I'm 27 weeks pregnant and we've been broken up for 3 weeks now, we've talked here and there and everytime I ignore him for 2+ days, he'll send me a message saying how sorry he is and how much he wants this to work, but then he's back to fighting with me the next day and recently found out he's been talking to girls, via facebook, and probably from his phone because that's what he uses facebook for... As he reactivated it soon as we broke up. I really don't want to be with him, its like dealing with a kid. I just need some advice on how to move on without feeling so depressed?

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Ammie - posted on 07/11/2012

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Jen, I was in the exact same position as you! I broke up with my baby daddy when I was about 4 months pregnant. I found out he was doing parting a lot, hanging with girls and dealing. And I did NOT want my son any where near that environment. He would always blow me off to "hang" with the "guys". I was also feeling depressed when I first broke up with him, but then I thought of all the horrible things he was doing, and that I wouldn't want someone like that raising my child, and that if he couldn't respect me and stay to hang with me while I was holding HIS child then how would he respect me when the baby was born. I literally wrote a page of the things that made me upset that he had done and the things that he had done then wrote beside it the all the positive things now that we weren't in a relationship. I am not sure if this helps at all, but just know that you aren't alone in this world and that there are people that are here to listen, if you ever need to talk don't hesitate to message me. ♥

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