K - posted on 07/25/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
Me and my ex broke up when I was two months pregnant. I saw him twice in between then and when I had the baby. He saw the baby twice at the hospital and twice at my house then stopped coming around because I didn't make him feel wanted. Which I didn't because I was so mad about doing everything on my own up until that point. A couple of weeks ago I made the decision to contact him and tell him if he wants to be around, he needs to be around and if he isn't then have a great life type thing. He made the choice to be around and it has been fine. He plays with the baby, finally gave me some money last week, things were looking up. I tell him repeatedly tell me when you want to come and I will try and be home so you can come. He was supposed to come over an hour ago. I asked him if he was still coming and he said he slept in which I won't take as a good enough excuse. I said to come a different day and all he said was "ya. sorry." What should I do? He isn't on the birth certificate or anything I spoke to a lawyer and know he has no rights until he takes me to court to get them I just want to get the visitation worked out. I don't even know how much I want him around my child if he's going to do things like this. Anyone else gone through this or have any advice?