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confused.. help lol

Roxanne - posted on 01/18/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )

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ok so i put a conversation up three days ago about how my son's father is never around and a bunch of stuff but that his family is still involved and that it hurt to see them and whatever because everytime i see them it reminds me of him. Well he randomly started messaging me on facebook last night about how he wants to be around, but he lives in strathmore and im in calgary but before hes able to come into the city more has to finish his probation which hes done in like 2 months. he was saying stuff like that he didnt want to break up with me and whatever, and i was so happy but im scared that if i start trusting him again he'll screw me over like before i dont know what to do. am i wrong to feel this way? should i just trust him, or should i be cautious? i dont knoww =/

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Ambyr - posted on 01/19/2011

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She has a great point. I didnt mean to only be with him for your child. If you do want to give it another shot though then like I said earlier I would be cautious but if your ONLY wanting to get back together with him for your child then it probably isnt the right reason ...

Casey - posted on 01/19/2011

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So many people think and you have to be with your child's father for them to have a father in their life. That isnt the case. Just thought Id put that out there. My son thinksmy boyfriend is his daddy. He even calls him that. His real father is in prison. He will be for another 1-4 years. As said before trust your gut. You will always love your daughter's father. That doesnt mean that you have to be with him. Just trust your gut. Good luck.

Ambyr - posted on 01/19/2011

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I would probably give it a chance because it is always nice for the childs sake to have the parents together. I just wouldnt go in full force right away. Maybe just take it slow at first and see how things go.

Roxanne - posted on 01/19/2011

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thanks guys and Amanda i do watch teen mom 2 lol yea my situation is a lot like Chelsea's

Amanda - posted on 01/19/2011

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I would deff give him a chance no matter what anyone says because your daughter deserves it to have a father figure in her life. However take things slow so you dont get hurt so bad again if it would happen. Do you watch teen mom 2? You kind of remind me of chelsea and adam lol...I wish you the best of luck and I hope it all works out for you and your son:-)

Shawnii-monique - posted on 01/18/2011

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Hi, im sorry to hear about your situation.....I can understand what your going through....I ended the relationship with my sons father because he was unreliable, always out with his mates drinking while my son and i were at home, he even got arrested. But even now he says he wants to see his son every two weeks, he has seen him once in the last 4 months....still unreliable!! So what i guess im saying is just be careful, it is perfectly normal to feel that way even more so when you are a mother.....as a mother trust your gut feeling,we dont get these feelings for no reason.....i hope this helps :) :)

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