Victoria - posted on 07/23/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I'm an 18 y/o first time mom and my fiances mom is out of control and everytime I try to talk to him about it he gets furious and walks out. This is just one of the latest incidents of many. My baby is only three weeks old and she found out that my mom had watched him for a few hours while we went to the store and after that it was everyday constantly I wanna watch him. I dont mind her coming over to visit as often as she wants but I wasnt ready to let her watch him and now I know why. Last week my df came home from her house and said my mom is keeping him tomorrow and thats that. After a huge argument I gave in. The next morning she was at my door banging and before I could get my clothes on to answer the door in my house and in my room packing his stuff and gone with him. When she brought him home she proceeded to tell me she put karo syrup in his bottle without asking me and that I could have let go if I hadnt found out later that night that she had took some pics like one she knew I had been wanting to get an appt to have made. they werent like random snapshots it was one id seen at a portrait place that she had to make props for and everything. Still would have gotten over it eventually but the way I found out was she had posted them on fb and put them on her sisters and moms and hid them from me. My moms friend was like his pics are so cute and I was like what pics and when I looked on there there werent any. Until I looked on them from my moms my friends and my dfs account all of which they were on. Im so infuriated and shocked at how weird that is that Idk how to handle it. I just know if she asks to keep him again theres no way I'm giving in. Am I overreacting or is this as weird not to mention overstepping her boundaries completely?