Ammie - posted on 07/11/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
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I am still to this day traumatized by the way my son was conceived. I often find myself thinking of that moment and what I wish I had done. I do not by any means regret my son, I couldn't imagine my life with out him. But I was wondering if there is anyone else out there that catches themselves thinking the same thing or if I am alone?
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Carol - posted on 07/22/2012
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I think anyone who has not had a traumatizing experience has been living in a bubble. What separates the winners from the others is the ability to see a terrible experience as just that an experience. Rank it with great experiences, boring experiences, exciting experiences and put them all together and that makes up your life. Don't connect conception with the result they are different. I am so sorry your baby was not brought about in the perfect way; you and your baby deserve that. My wonderful daughter came to life through my relationship with an abusive man - she is amazing great and he is not - two separate facts. The best fact: I got to keep her and I got to get rid of him!!!
Ammie - posted on 07/14/2012
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DO it! He has two choices be there or don't because in the end it will confuse your ( and mine too ) son, if he isn't going to commit to being a father to him then why have him around? Our boys dont need some low life scum who would rather sleep around, drink, do drugs and party then help raise their own child.
Symphonie - posted on 07/14/2012
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I really don't know how to deal with the fact that he never wants to to come get his son because he wants to go and party with his stupid girlfriend I'm thinking about kicking him out my life cause he dosnt treat us right
Ammie - posted on 07/14/2012
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HAHA I think we have the same Ex Boyfriend. Mine tried to serve me with court papers and take my son after a couple hours of me having him. Now he writes all over his facebook saying that I stole him and that I am being a horrible parent. Although I'm the one who dropped out of high school, bought EVERYTHING for him. And he is claiming that he buys everything. Boys -.- Now that he has a new girlfriend he has ditched his visit scheduled days to hang with her and writes that he is hanging with his "baby girl" ironic huh.
Symphonie - posted on 07/14/2012
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i hate the fact that i have to deal with him for the rest of my life and now he has a new girlfriend and always chooses her over me and my son. he has every1 thinking he such a great dad but hes not im the one taking care of our son 24/7 and hes only taken the baby once for one day
Ammie - posted on 07/14/2012
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I am SO sorry to hear that! I'm not even sure if what he did to me was rape, but he did hold me down did what he did, and told me I would b an idiot to leave.
Symphonie - posted on 07/14/2012
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Yeah my so called boyfriend raped me but he aks like it never happened and blames me for getting pregnant
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