did you have a planned pregnancy or an unexpected one??

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Danica - posted on 10/15/2009

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It's odd that I'm posting this because I have never said a word. But my baby was kind of planned. We had talked about it and planned everything out how it was going to go.. Because when you're young you really don't know what's in store for you. But we tried for about 3 months and then we kinda thought a little deeper and decided that we weren't ready and we should wait a long time. But it just so happens that I was prego already. I shouldve known better, we're split and he doesn't see her very often or help take care of her. But she is my world! I would do anything for her, and I would much rather have her than him :]

Demitria - posted on 10/14/2009

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Mine was totally unplanned. I was with the father then we broke up, I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks later. We never talked and I tried to have other relationships the whole time. I was a single mother for about a month then a wonder gy came into my life. I wouldn't change any of this for the world!

Mea - posted on 10/14/2009

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My first was very unexpected as i had broken up with the guy and a month later i found out i was pregnant, i then ended it with my new bf and told the old one that i was pregnant and that i was going to have it and that he did not have to be involved if he didnt want to(knowing most guys responsibilities are not there strongest attributes) but to my suprize he wanted to be a daddy and be together again. we got back together and had our son Pheonix later that year in 2006.. In 2008 we started trying for another child and this time we wanted a girl so we could have one of each.. in 2009 i gave birth to our beautiful baby girl Taeyah and me and my partner are now engaged.

Gemma - posted on 10/14/2009

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Unexpecetd!!! But couldnt have asked for a more beautiful child.. My daughter is 3months, and i have not regretted falling pregnant since the day i found out.. As soon as they put that baby in your arms, any doubts fly out the window, and you prepare yourself to be the best possible mother you can be no, matter how old you are or your circumstances... Suprises aren't always a bad thing =)

Sarah - posted on 10/13/2009

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mine was really unexpected i was on the pill but noone told me that antibiotics can stop it from working.

Brittney - posted on 10/12/2009

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UNEXPECTED!!!!! dont get me wrong I love my baby....but i didnt plan on have a baby at the age of 17......but she is here now so she is meant to be

Amanda - posted on 10/12/2009

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Unexpected. I was a victim of sexual violence at a college party and my period was late a month later so I took a test and it was positive. I couldn't believe it. A cold prickly dread and disbelief filled me. I went to talk to my best friend and at that moment I felt a sense that my body was complete, it was full, it was protecting a life. I decided to keep it and i told my parents and the rest of my family on my birthday about a month later. They were as supportive as they could possibly have been. My pregnancy was beautiful, labor was long and hard and an emergency episiotomy was the cherry on top. I went all natural and had absolutely no drugs or pain medication. Now I have a WONDERFUL 6 week old little boy. He is gorgeous and I love him with all of my heart.

Stacey - posted on 10/12/2009

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Quoting Cynthia :

mine was very unexpected. i must be super unlucky because it was my first time EVER lol and it was crazy because i didnt know i was untill i was 6 months along and felt her kicking.... damn irregular period. well i love her anyways shes awesome!!



I didnt find out till i was 5 months

Cynthia - posted on 10/11/2009

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mine was very unexpected. i must be super unlucky because it was my first time EVER lol and it was crazy because i didnt know i was untill i was 6 months along and felt her kicking.... damn irregular period. well i love her anyways shes awesome!!

Brooke - posted on 10/11/2009

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im sorry if i offend anyone but it is a shock to see how many teen mothers had an unexpected pregnancy..

I was 17 when my partner and I started trying, it took a month before we fell pregnant, we lost that baby but a month later I was pregnant with our daughter. Every baby is a precious gift, I dont know everyones situation so dont take this personally but that baby should be brought into the world in a prepared environment.. As we all should know they aren't a doll, we cant take them back to the shop when we are done playing. THEY ARE EXPENSIVE!! Being a great mum is so much more then just loving your child..

I feel sorry for any child who is brought into the world with parents who don't have a secure home, who have to live off benefits cause they dont have the money, who still live at home..

these aren't the ways in which a child should be brought up in...

personal opinion!! again sorry if I offend.. dont take it personally, as I said I dont know everyone's situation..

Dayami - posted on 10/10/2009

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Sort of planned yet unexpected. We wanted a baby and tried for 2 months then decided we were not ready so stopped trying and then got pregnant 3 months later.

Sam - posted on 10/10/2009

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yeah well we werent using protection 4 nearly 2yr, we thought if it happened it happened but we went on holiday and decided 2 officially start tryin, works out i fell pregnant the last day ov my holiday. i got engaged the 1st day ov our holiday so it was amazin

Jenneth - posted on 10/10/2009

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my husband also knew before me with all three babies. i guess i was in denial i dont know but i did not feel pregnant. he was sick i was not

Amber - posted on 10/10/2009

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IMy twins were very unexpected but my other 2 were sorta planned but big surprise

Tara - posted on 10/09/2009

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Unexpected on both counts. Apparently we were that freaky 1% on both counts. The condom didnt bust but yet heres my daughter! And Ive used that same b/c before but yet heres my son. I blame it all on their dads freaky ass sperm. Im happy to say we found something that works! no more babies for a few years at least!

Kelsey - posted on 10/08/2009

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kindda both. we knew we wanted a child but we wanted to wait a year...it happend earlier than we had planned

Katelyn - posted on 10/08/2009

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I was on birth control when I got pregnant. My friends made me take a test because I was so late. And it turns out I was pregnant! Best thing to ever happen to me though :)

Stefanie - posted on 10/08/2009

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Yes. both of my pregnancies were unplanned. My first came when I was a sophomore in high school - way unexpected! and my second came at the end of the junior year in college. I was very suprised by both of them and while I still wish I could have picked better timing, I don't regret either of my kids. They make life worth living.

Helen Katrina - posted on 10/07/2009

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unexpected, but never regretted =D my daughter is the greatest thing to have ever happened to me.

Cynthia - posted on 10/07/2009

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unexpected...but I'm happy thats she's here...having her is the best thing that happend to me

Cassandra - posted on 10/07/2009

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Mines was unexpected, I didn't know I was pregnant after 3 1/2 months when my mom saw that my boobs were getting bigger lol.. she said that I was pregnant and that I should take a test. But before that happened, a months before.. My bf's auntie had a dream that I was pregnant and said that I shouldn't be scared and not to worry.

Brooke - posted on 10/07/2009

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well, I had 2 planned pregnancies. The first ended in miscarriage and the second gave my partner and I our beautiful daughter.

We both wanted to be young parents and when the chance came for us to start trying we took it..

We now are paying off our own home, our daughter has her own pretty pink room, she is happy and healthy and simply growing up way to fast!! 9 months old on the 26th

Courtney - posted on 10/07/2009

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totally unexpected. I had an irregular cycle, and one cycle ended up being in 2 months. (started in March, but ended in April) so I thought that my april one had come early. I was so wrong!!!!

but it's ok,,,,i'm blessed to be having my daughter : )

Caitelyn - posted on 10/06/2009

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Totally unexpected! Found out at 19 weeks gestation that I was pregnant. But he is so so so welcome.

Krystle - posted on 10/06/2009

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Mine was planned. Right before I found out I was pregnant, we had decided that we'd stop trying for a while if I wasn't pregnant already! Low and behold, I was pregnant and She's the best thing to ever happen to me!

Sam - posted on 10/05/2009

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mine was planned but i got the rod taken out of my arm and we got told by the doctors it takes 2 years to fall and i fell pregnant 4 months after which was a shock but the thing that happened

Brittany - posted on 10/05/2009

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lets just say wayyyyyyyy unplanned....still partying && living my life..only18...But im excited && hearing my babys heart beat had me sold =-)

Pamela - posted on 10/05/2009

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I had 2 that were totally unplanned and 2 that were planned. The first one I was 16 so was totally not planned and the second one I found out I was pregnant after the father and I split because he didn't love me anymore. The last 2 I was married and my husband really wanted more children.

Maria - posted on 10/05/2009

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mine was unexpected...worst of all my husband was in boot camp, then a-school, then deploment. i didnt have him with me my whole pregnancy

Iysha - posted on 10/05/2009

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Mine was both. lol. I had stopped using birth control because my boyfriend had said he wanted a baby and wanted to start a family. The unexpected part was that I got pregnant right away. We thought it would have taken a whole lot longer than 2 months. He had thought that there was something wrong with him, that he couldn't have babies or something because when he was with his ex, they tried for a year. Right after they broke up, a few months later, she was pregnant with her new boyfriend's kid. So we were excited...and he was in disbelief. He didn't believe I was pregnant until I went to my first prenatal checkup a month after I took the home test.

Alexandra - posted on 10/05/2009

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yeah both my pregnancies were unexpected even with the use of contraception for both but i dont regret it i love both of them more then n e thing

Tess - posted on 10/05/2009

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even though i wasnt on any form of contraception as i reacted badly on all of them my daughter tiffany was unexpected. but the ebst thing to happen to us!

Cynthia - posted on 10/04/2009

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way unexpected! my hubby knew before i did lol he watched me like clock work and when i was later than my "normal" late he asked me to take a test. i wasnt worried at all but whoops! my eyes popped out like a cartoon lol!

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