engaged or married?

Raewyn - posted on 01/08/2010 ( 41 moms have responded )

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just curious ta c who owt there is either? and at wat age? and was it mainly because u have a child 2gether?

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Donna - posted on 10/02/2011

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im married. And no we got married bc he spent 75 bucks on a marrige certificate bc he had to prove that he wasnt into his ex, and i said ok were not spending another 75 bucks so lets just do it lol. but weve been married for 7 yrs now and have no plans of breaking up.

Amanda - posted on 10/01/2011

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im 21 had my daughter at 19 been together for amazing years recently got engaged on our 3 year anniverary :)

Janeta - posted on 09/28/2011

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my husband and I were together for two years before he asked me to marry him I was sixteen! I said yes. A few months later I got pregnant! We are still together to this day and we are now married as of Feb 12 2011

Tiffany - posted on 09/27/2011

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we met at when i was 14 and had a baby at 19 and married at 20 and we r expecting again :)

Tawnya - posted on 09/25/2011

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My husband and I married when I was 22 and he was 21. I had a 4 yr old girlg from a previous relationship and was 20 weeks pregnant when we got married. We married because we loved each other and just moved up the date due to my pregnancy of our baby girl who is now 13 weeks old now.

Brooke - posted on 07/17/2011

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When I was 18 I fell pregnant. The father and I continued dating, but throughout the pregnancy fell further apart and we were actually broken up when our daughter was born and through almost the entire first year of her life. We were able to work things out and we started dating again. On June 22, 2010 he proposed to me and we just got married in May at the age of 22 and he's 23. Our daughter will be 4 on August 5th and we just found out we are pregnant!

Victoria - posted on 01/23/2010

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we had our first daughter after a year and a half of dating, married wen she was 9 months old, just had our second daughter a month after our 1-year wedding anniversary. we were already planning our wedding when we found out about our first daughter. i was 19 wen we got married. we decided to wait because i didnt wanna have a big prego belly in my wedding dress. we love each other and are best friends to this very day.

Sarah - posted on 01/22/2010

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I got married 8 days before my 19th birthday, found out 5 days later that we were expecting...very big surprise! Guess our daughter was our honey moon present! lol

Tamika - posted on 01/22/2010

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I'M ENGAGED AND HAVE BEEN ENGAGED FOR 7 YEARS LOL. MY FINACEE AND I GOT ENGAGED WHEN I WAS 17 AND HE WAS 21. WE STILL AREN'T MARRIED YET BUT HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 14 YEARS

Tiffany - posted on 01/21/2010

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im married and we have a 6 month old son. he was 4 months old when we got married. i am 19. my husband i were plannin to get married before i got pregnant.

Brittany - posted on 01/21/2010

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I am a 20 year old mother to a beautiful baby boy who is 1 year old. I got married before I even knew I was pregnant when I was 18. We had already talked about having children so about 2 or 3 weeks after we got married, we found out we were pregnant! Everbody that I talk to automatically thinks that we got married because I was pregnant because the dates are so close, but that's not it at all. So now we've been married for 2 years on March 3!

Chelsea - posted on 01/21/2010

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I have been with my fiance for 4 months 3 weeks and 2 days and we love each other after only being together a week he proposed to me and withing days after that i got pregnant.. i found out oct. 23rd i was pregnant n couldnt believe it but i was happy! n we plan on being together for awhile before we get married.. I am 17.. 18 in september 2010 and he just turned 20 last week. so no we are not getting married cuz i am pregnant, we are getting married cuz we love eachother!

Regina - posted on 01/21/2010

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i was married when i was 17. yes because i was pregnant. my divorce will be finalized in a month or so

Krystal - posted on 01/21/2010

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hi im 19 and iv been engaged for 3 and half years, me and my fiance have been together for 4 years and 8 months and are still deeply in love with each other, weve been engaged 3 and half years so obviously its not because we have a baby because he is only 8 months old, my partner is the best daddy and fiance in the world and il love him till i die lol we are hoping to get married in the next year or 2. :)

Nikki - posted on 01/16/2010

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i am now married, ive been married for nearly 2 months. my partner and i got engaged when we found out we were pregnant.. we figured after everything we've been through together, this was our sign that we were ment to be. our relationship has improved so much since being married and now that the big hormonal part of the pregnancy is over lol. i am 21 and he is 20.

Tiffany - posted on 01/16/2010

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I'm 20...21 in july. Me and my fiance just found out I'm prego. We have been engaged since I was 16 or 17. We just have yet to get married. Now that we are havin a baby we are talking about gettin married more than ever. He's actualy looking into stuff, which is a big step, for him.

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I am soon to be 21 in March and I am married. I did not marry because I became pregnant. We were engaged before we got pregnant and we got married after I delivered. My youngest will be 1 yr on the 23rd of this month and my oldest will be 3 on April 19th.

Nicki - posted on 01/14/2010

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my babys biological dad left me the day i told him i was pregnant i was 18 but i started dating a lovely guy when i was just 6 weeks pregnant and we are still together now and have been for nearly 3 and a half years !! he is a dad to my child and is amazing we r not engaged yet but that is down to money etc and are now planning a 2nd chil.

Amber - posted on 01/14/2010

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My husband is 26 and Im 19. When we got married I was 18, August 16, 2008. I found out I was pregnant that October. Had my son June 12 09, he is now 7 months and we cldnt be happier

Katie - posted on 01/13/2010

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My fiancee and I are 19 and engaged, We had already been engaged for about a month before we found out we were pregnant...and No, it had nothing to do with the baby we are getting married because we love each other and are each others best friends.

Kaitlyn - posted on 01/13/2010

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I'm engaged and I'm 19. It's not because we have a child together, it's because we love each other and want to be together. We were planning on getting engaged and we just happened to get pregnant first..

Allison - posted on 01/13/2010

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i'm engaged and i'm 18 and no its def not becuz we have a child together i would never even just date someone becuz we have a child together...we love each other and that's why we're engaged

Trisha - posted on 01/13/2010

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Got married at 16 because we love each other. Finally got pregnant after 2 years of marriage.

Ashley - posted on 01/11/2010

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I am married. I got married when i was 18. No not because we have kids he asked me to marry him way before i got pregnant.

Kristy Lee - posted on 01/11/2010

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i was with my husband now for 5 and a half years, we got engaged. then fell pregnant strait away. and he was born march 10th 09. And we were married in NOvember 2009 :) and r planning our 2nd child together :)

Autumn - posted on 01/11/2010

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i agree marriage isn't good if your only doing it for the kid cause in reality when you fight it hurts your kid just as much as it does your relationship...i met my fiance when i was 15 turning 16 and we dated for almost a year when we found out i was prego, we talked about getting engaged twice before i even got pregnant. we will be getting married on march 27th of this year. were not getting married because of our 3 month old son... its cause we cant go a day apart and we love each other i will be 18 when we get married my birthday is the weekend before our wedding....

Heather - posted on 01/11/2010

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I got married in May 2009 and had our daughter in November 2009. Shortly after marriage I turned 19. So some would say we got married just because of the baby..but we honestly were gonna get married anyway..but I wanted to be married before the baby got here. It made me feel better and showed my family that he was going to take responsibility. But I don't think getting married just because you have a child together is a good idea..because marriage is TOUGH. Especially the first year.

Sarah - posted on 01/11/2010

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got engaged to my partner on our 2year anniversary (6/12/09) on the top of the eiffel tower .. every girls dream =D =D ..
our anniversary is TWO days before my birthday .. unlucky him .. so i was almost 20.
it probably is because we have a child together that were engaged because i don't think he would have thought about marriage initaly (sp?) .. but ultimately our son has made us a lot stronger .. not that we ever argued in the first place.
i met him at work and he is the sweetest,funniest man i have ever met .. he's absolutely amazing and i love him to bits .. him and our son are my whole world.

Renee - posted on 01/11/2010

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I got engaged when I was 19 and Chris was 33, Now 3 years on we have a beautiful baby girl, who I didn't expect until after we were married but I wouldn't change it for the world. We were planning to get married this year but have decided to wait until Abby is old enough to really be a part of it, maybe even wiht her little brother or sister?..

Ena - posted on 01/10/2010

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Got engaged at 17 ( not cos of kid) pregnant and baby and married at 18. Now 27, still married, 3 kids :)

Echo - posted on 01/10/2010

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I've been engaged to the father of my children on and off (due mainly to a lot of growing up that needed to be done on both our parts) since I was 18, and he was 19. Our oldest was 2 months at the time. He's now almost 5 and we have a 3 month old. We're still not really in any big rush to get married though. We are technically married in the eyes of the law anyway.

Marina - posted on 01/10/2010

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we were togetherr 5 months when we got engaged i was 17. we were together a little over a yr when i found out i was pregnant (the day before prom). our daughter was born dec 2, 2009 and we got married on the tenth. so married for a month :)

Stephanie - posted on 01/09/2010

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im engaged and been for 3 yrs, we were together for 1 yr b4. we have a 4 month old and obvisouly its not cuz we have a kid

Alicia - posted on 01/09/2010

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hi!! ive been married for a little over a year now, and had just turned 18 when we got married. weve been together a total of 3 years, and we didnt get married because i was pregnant, because i didnt know til afterwards.

Jodie - posted on 01/09/2010

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im 17, 18 in august and ive been with my fiance for 2 years we got engaged 6 months after we got together n our daughter is now 4 months old and we hope to be married with in the next 6 months and its not mainly cos we have a child its cos we love each other thr is not point being married to some1 u dont love cos it will end up not working out n being a night mare x

Iysha - posted on 01/08/2010

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My baby's father and I are engaged. We were talking about marriage and started to plan on when we would have enough money for the ceremony and all that in September and in November I found out I was pregnant. He was dissapointed that I didn't have a ring on my finger yet, and knew it would be a while before we could afford rings but we both knew that we wanted to marry eachother. He didn't know that his mother had a ring waiting for him to give to me. lol. So, after our baby was born, she asked him when he was going to ask me to marry him...he told her that he would as soon as he could afford a ring. So, she told him and he got the ring and the next day, almost a year after I found out I was expecting, when my daughter was 3 months old, he proposed to me at the beach. He is 25 and I am 21. Planning the wedding for Fall 2012. Hopefully in a year we will have the money to start following through with it....if not, it can wait...I just want our daughter to be able to walk and follow directions so she can be the flower girl =]

Raewyn - posted on 01/08/2010

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aww wow thats so cute,ur profile pic is sooo gorgus use look like a beautiful lil family me and mi bf nly knwn eachother 2years and wanna tie the knot 1day but we wanna wait till our lil girl is old enuf ta join us on our special day wen ever that b

Amanda - posted on 01/08/2010

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Hi! :) I am 17, almost 18 (in March) and am engaged to the most wonderful man I have ever known. We will be getting married on April 24 of this year! It is definitely NOT mainly because we have a child. Actually, it really isn't "because" we have a child at all. I have known my fiance for over half of my life and I have known since I was 8 years old (yes, it sounds crazy) that he is the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with. We were talking about marriage before I even got pregnant. Our daughter will be 1 on the 23rd of this month and we both just feel like now is the right time. We are both ready!

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