for how long was you and your partner together before you got pregnant? or found out?

Izelle - posted on 02/01/2010 ( 230 moms have responded )

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me and my child's father was together for a year before i knew i was pregnant but i was 4months when we found out so it was sooner than that i just didnt know it

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Jo - posted on 11/16/2011

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we had been together about 3ish yrs before our first... all 4 of our children are roughly 18months to 2 yrs apart

Kari - posted on 11/15/2011

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We were together for 6 months when we found out we were pregnant the first time. I had a miscarriage 8 weeks later. And got pregnant again 3 months after that.

Erica - posted on 11/14/2011

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we were together a year when we found out, by the first dr.'s visit, I said..I think 2 1/2 months along, the ultrasound lady giggled and said..more like 4 1/2. 0.o

Diana - posted on 11/13/2011

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We were together 5 and a half years before we got pregnant. We had been married 2 and a half.

Ashley - posted on 11/11/2011

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My boyfriend and I were dating for four months when we found out that we were pregnant. I had known him briefly for a few years. I was actually one month already when we found out. So technically we were only together for 3 months before we found out that we were pregnant.

Eschelle - posted on 11/11/2011

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we were together for 2 1/2 yrs i think when he found out... i am sure my math is horribly wrong though.

Madonna - posted on 11/11/2011

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me and my then partner (now hubby) was together for only 3 months before I got pregnant. I kind of knew I was pregnant after about 2 weeks and found out for sure 2 weeks later.

Lora - posted on 11/09/2011

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we got pregnant a little before our 1 yr wedding anniversary. we had been together for almost 2 years.

Jade Alisha - posted on 11/09/2011

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My Boyfriend And I Were Together For 4 Years 4Months Wen We Found Out I Was Pregnant At 51eeks :) xx

Ashley - posted on 11/08/2011

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MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE TOGETHER FOR 4-1/2 YEARS BEFORE WE FOUND OUT WHEN I WAS ANOUT 6 WEEKS PREGNANT NEEDLESS TO SAY ABOUT A MONTH AFTER SHE WAS BORN HE BASICALLY LEFT US

Allie - posted on 11/03/2011

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My husband and i hand only been dating 3 short months when i got pregnant. we found out easter weekend! and i was almost 3 months pregant. even though we hadn't been together long we did pull through and are now married and coming up on our two years of being together!

LovingMom - posted on 11/01/2011

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we were together for 10 years, but have known each other since 6 years prior, so if you add that it's a total of 16 years (and then it lasted for only another 3 years after the birth!)

Charity - posted on 10/28/2011

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we knew eachother like 3 years but we were only together 3 or 4 months. i found out at 5 weeks.

Charity - posted on 10/28/2011

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we knew eachother like 3 years but we were only together 3 or 4 months. i found out at 5 weeks.

Casey - posted on 10/27/2011

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My sons sperm donor and I were together for 4ish months when I found out I was pregnant and I was 8 weeks when I found out. We staid together untill I was about 5 months pregnant. Not ideal but he was immature and didnt have a stable place to live. (a friends couch isnt stable at all) we argued all the time.

Shavanda - posted on 10/26/2011

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my boyfriend and i were together for 3 years b4 i found out i was prego. i was 8 weeks when i found and now its our 4th year going strong and our beautiful daughter just turn 1 in sept.

Ashley - posted on 10/25/2011

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My child's Father and i had been together for only 2 years when we found out i was pregnant with our now almost 3 year old son.

Kimberley - posted on 10/23/2011

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my partner and i were only together 2months before i found out i was pregnant and that was 5 years ago now and we are still going strong and now have 3 wonderful children.

Stephanie - posted on 04/12/2011

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When I got pregnant with our first kid we had been together for 3,5 year... :) We have now been together for 7 years in december this year..

Jodie - posted on 04/12/2011

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I am/was 17 when I fell pregnant. I think it was about 9 months we were together for about 9 months when i got pregnant, but we didn't find out until i was 9 weeks along. So the next 5 weeks are just a waiting game for her to arrive. ♥

Stacey - posted on 04/10/2011

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me n my partner were together for 9 months when i fell pregnant at 17 he was 19 we have now been together for 8yrs and 3 children later

Linda - posted on 04/10/2011

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i got pregnant when me and my boyfriend were together for only 2 months , we were together for only 3 months when we found out . he was only 17 i was 18 . he proposed to me , and we now have 2 sons, been together for 3 years and getting married in 4 months :)

Alex - posted on 04/09/2011

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me and my boyfriend had been together for a yr before i got pregnant we have now been together for 5 yrs and also have had a second baby

Kelli - posted on 04/04/2011

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me and my bf were together for 5 months wen we found out i was pregnant. had our lil girl on february 8th 2011 and we have been together for almost 16 months

Amanda - posted on 04/04/2011

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My now husband was my fiance when i found out i was pregnant and we were together for a little over 5 years when i found out.

Megan - posted on 04/03/2011

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We were together a year and a half when I got pregnant. We've now been together for two years and are closer than ever. Even though we lost our baby, the experience brought us closer as a couple. :)

Amanda - posted on 04/03/2011

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me and my bf were together for abour 8 months we had our own apartment and everything and then we found out i was pregnant we are about to celebrate our 3 yr anniversory in june :)

Stacy - posted on 04/02/2011

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, we concieved about 2 months after our 4 year anniversary.

Brooke - posted on 04/02/2011

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My boyfriend and I dated for two years in high school. After graduation we were trying to figure out what was going to happen once we both went away to college. In the fall, I found out I was pregnant so plans changed and we both changed our college plans and stayed in town. It's been three years since then and we are set to get married on May 22nd!

Hayley - posted on 03/17/2011

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with my ex it was under a month , thats why we didnt last at all , so thats my son's father who has no contact with him anyways these days and he is almost 2 , but with my current partner we were togerther 6 months and new we wanted a nother baby so we planned to fall pregnant and within 2 months we were and now we are expecting a daughter in june :)

Tasha - posted on 03/16/2011

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ironically, my now husband and i found out i was pregnant after being together for about 3 months, but weve been together for about 4 years. im loving it.

KaSandra - posted on 03/14/2011

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my baby's dad and i were together 7 months before we found out i was pregnant.
we got together February of '09
found out i was pregnant October of '09
had her June of "10
and he passed away November "10
we were together the whole time. engaged and lived together. i was 17 when we found out he was 20 by time i had her it was 9 days after i turned 18 and he was 21

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Me and my sons dad were in a long distance (Australia to NZ) relationship for 3 months, then when he moved to Aus at 18, we were together a month before I got pregnant.

Way too soon, but we made it work for almost 3 years.

Shiloh - posted on 05/03/2010

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its horrible but i knew my babies dad pretty much my whole life. we started dating and about a week after we started dating he broke up with me for his best friends gf n then i found out i was pregnant about 2 weeks after...i waited to go to the doctor (stupid idea) until my mom made me take a pregnancy test. when we got to the doctor i was 4 months pregnant and it had been that long since me n the bd were together. weve been off n on since. off for the past 8-9 months now n im ok with it.

Kelly - posted on 05/03/2010

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we met in highschool, he was a senior&&of course i was a freshmen;
we dated for about 3yrs.
in january we had been together for 4yrs, we decided to move in together;
we lived together for about 3months when i found out i was pregnant;
i had found out when i was 2months

Kyrsten Analiese - posted on 05/02/2010

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My boyfriend and I were only together 3 months before I got preggo. I was on the shot and thought I wouldn't get pregnant but surprise! But I'm due in about 4 days and we've made it through the pregnancy, and I'm sure he'll make out to be a great dad and hopefully one day husband!

Daralee - posted on 05/02/2010

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me and my partner were together for 3 years we found out straight away i knew something wasnt right

Marcia - posted on 05/02/2010

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my sons father and i had only been dating on and off for 2 months when i found out i was preg. we stayed together till he was 1 then went our own ways as we were rele ontogether cos of our son. now im with an amazing guy who loves me and my son and my son loves him

Sophie - posted on 05/01/2010

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i as with my partner for a year when i found out i was pregs we now been together for 3 years coming on 4 years were engaged and living together with my lil boy

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We were together for 4 months before I got pregnant the first time and miscarried and then 1 month late we were pregnant again and have been together ever since. It has been over 4 yrs now.

Tash - posted on 05/01/2010

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I was about 2 months gone when I found out I was pregnant, and we'd been together a year and a couple of months at the time.

Akeisha - posted on 04/30/2010

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we were friens for a year....then we dated in late march o8 and then in august 08 i got pregnant.........still together all now...

Laura - posted on 04/30/2010

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me and my partner got together 1st june 2006 i foundt out i was pregnant in the july 2006 but we both are still together now nearly 4 years later and got 3 girls now in total but had a bit of trouble as his family said lilly-rose (eldest) wasnt his because of the dates saying my pregnancy went from 31st may (LMP) to the 8th march when clearly it was his i lost my virginity to him (in my head) but i love it being a mum xxxx

Brittany - posted on 04/20/2010

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My fiance and I were together for a year and a half before we found out. We were also in the midst of house shopping!

Josee - posted on 04/20/2010

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My boyfriend &i found out i was 5 months pregnant, a little after our 5 months together.

and now my son is 6 months and we've been together for a year and 3 months. :)

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