Belle - posted on 02/07/2011 ( 32 moms have responded )
I've only just turned 18 and next year i plan to go to University. My fiancie is a lot older than me and can be very controlling. I few months ago i found out i was pregnant and knowing that My partner would want to keep it and absolutly adores children I didnt want to tell him and get an abortion because I'm still at school and want to focus on that. It's not that I dont want children but i am no where near ready to be mother. A couple of weeks later I had the date booked when i could abort (please dont make refrence to religion or what not because i'm not religous.) but I had texted a friend about it and forgot to delete the text. I can not describe how angry he was when he found out that i was planning to abort it, i told him the reason why i didnt which is the fact he would make me keep it and he wouldnt even deny it. He can be violent sometimes but i know he would make an amazing father and i do plan to have children with him but he doesnt seem to get that i want to wait. He keeps telling me i dont need school or to go to Uni because i already live with him and he is quite wealthy. I cant run back to my foster parents because they dont have any room for me. My only choice is to stay with him but he said that if i gave up this kid he would leave me. How can i get him to wait?