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Going back to work.

Megan - posted on 06/21/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have a 7 month old I have decided I want to go back to work. I get bored sitting at home and start to go crazy and get frustrated easily after a few days of it, so I think I need to just for the sake of my sanity. Generally, if I do go somewhere, I take her with me. The problem, is that since I have never really left her with anyone besides the odd time I get a chance to go out, I have trust issues when it comes to who looks after my daughter. I’m always thinking about the things that could go wrong or what if something happens. I’m debating on whether or not I can actually do it or not. I live with my parents and I trust the 100% with her because they know her routine and her different cries and stuff almost as much as I do but they will not always be able to look after her and I know they will follow my instructions. I’m afraid to leave her with anyone but them. Even her father. We’re still together but he works a lot and is not always around. I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions or ways of dealing with the separation anxiety.

Thank you
-Megan

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Jeizel - posted on 06/23/2010

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my son's been in daycare since he was born and i love it. they learn to socialize with other people really well and i feel like they grow up a lot faster. my son is three now he's been potty trained since he was 27mo., he can dress himself, he speaks very well and sometimes he'll use really advanced words for his age, he's even learning to read and write, and thats mostly due to daycare. you dont have to worry too much about paying for it because you can ask for assistance from your state, and when you file your taxes you'll get all the money that you spent on daycare back. honestly, i'd rather my son be in daycare than with my family members. and dont worry about your baby's routine they adapt really quickly and befor you know it she'll be adapted to her new one.

Megan - posted on 06/23/2010

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Thank you! I like that idea of her watching her while I'm around. :) The job I got is flexible and will be consistant when I have a good schedule going. The boss is really understanding. That took away a lot of stress. I forgot my brother will be home occaisionally too because he's done school now. I think i'll be alright. Once everything gets organized.
Thanks again! :)

Erin - posted on 06/21/2010

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Try to find a part-time job that will be flexible with your schedule so you can work only when your parents are able to watch your daughter. Part-time will allow you a little time for you away from your baby, a little extra money, and it'll ease your daughter into you being away from her more often. As for finding someone else you can trust, make sure you get references, check out the place where she'll be sitting your daughter, and make sure she's CPR certified. It'll be hard, but you can do it! If possible, see if she'll take care of your daughter with you around so you can see how she takes care of everyone. Of course, she'll be extra nice since you're around, but it'll give you the general idea.

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