Anastasia - posted on 12/30/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
Okay, so I had my first when I was 16, he is now 4 and will start school soon. I am 21 and my boyfriend now and I have been dating (seriously dating) for 2 years. He has no children, but keeps hinting to me that it would be to have a baby born right after our wedding ceremony. Have a wedding planeed out for September, and than have a baby ya know? But I still have feelings for Tims dad, and he with me. We both only have one child...everytime we see each other it feels the way it did back when we were kids again. So what do you think about having a child with a different father? I do have baby fever, I completely take care of myself and my child..have my own house, car, pay my own bills, I mean tim's dad helps out but he lives 4hrs away, we just recently moved ( me andtim) to PA for a job that required me to move. So what do you think? Wait it out, see if maybe a couple years things change for me and my bf, or go ahead and let the past be the past? Will it be too confusing for my son to have another bro/or sis with some1 other than his daddy he loves so much? I was always totally against having my bf move in with me i never wanted another man around tim, at least not now, he's so young. what are your opinions, advice, comments, and do you have two different childs fathers?